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IMC1958 66F
0 posts
1/30/2021 4:10 pm
No names named ...but can we please start being adults?


Please see post in 1st comment/

Thanks for stopping by and reading.
IMC1958

Strive for calm, but through balance, not through standing still...Friedrich Schiller
IMC1958


IMC1958 66F

1/30/2021 4:19 pm

I don't remember when I started noticing.
If you want to comment to a blog post, do it within that post.
Unless you are what you are accusing everyone else to be - an attention whore. Then of course you create your own post, of course with a title that directly connects those two.
When I saw it the first time, I was so naive to think it was a coincidence. Or maybe I gave you the benefits of doubt.
But can we please stop this? The world is full of problems, it is time for you to stop being full of yourself. Pretty amazing how childish a grown up man can be.

Noone here needs your questionable education. Keep it bottled up until someone asks you.

Be constructive or be quiet, please.

It is not even fucking funny anymore.

IMC1958

Strive for calm, but through balance, not through standing still...Friedrich Schiller
IMC1958


Toy_Master_54 69M  
605 posts
1/30/2021 4:44 pm

IMC I like your "Be constructive or be quiet, please" , I guess that depends on what someone feels is constructive, for one they might feel it is, to whom they are discussing, just the opposite feeling. Some might do it in a belittling fashion, some might honestly want to have an open dialog of discussion and hopefully someone would might understand the other's opinion, if they are adults. But often times, like they say, you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. I find that having an open mind helps a lot, many don't have that, try to let me see your side of the discussion and I will show you mine.


IMC1958 replies on 1/30/2021 4:53 pm:
Since I really do not want to make this a 'public name shaming', I took the liberty to send you a message.

OldJeakel 73M
377 posts
1/30/2021 6:06 pm

I learned to spot and ignore that stuff long ago, its tedious and ignorant


lionslair 60F  
134 posts
1/30/2021 7:10 pm

Lets start being adults by leaving your politics out of our sex site. Put it on your FB, instagram, twitter, whatever floats your boat. This really isnt the platform for politics.

Lioness


IMC1958 replies on 1/30/2021 7:28 pm:
My politics?
I always thought that politics is something, that touches everyone's life and as such is relevant.
This is a place as good as any other, like it or not.
And it always is YOUR choice to read it or not.

likesmatures 55M
4852 posts
1/30/2021 7:13 pm

Hello in a scent...

She wasnt talking about me. Did you actually read her post. And most likely you are pissed off because you were banned from my blog.

So you take your anger out on me in someone elses' blog?? Wow passive aggressive much

That is quite the karen move.

And being real? I think my list of banned members is maybe 10. So if your banned then you deserve it

Like the blogger suggested...cant we be adults?..

You cant access my blog so you need to just let it go..
I believe this is the 2nd blog you bashed me on


likesmatures 55M
4852 posts
1/30/2021 7:22 pm

And the only reason i ever called anyone out on the big boards directly is the bush league bullshit practice of personally attacking a blogger.

Notice i didn't say disagreeing with the blog. I mean literally calling them stupid,ignorant or worse.

I don't delete such responses because i want my readers to see what dicks you are.

So just like twitter...i out you on the bigboards so others can see your not productive members of this community.

I mean if your gonna attack me personally on my blog then im gonna put it out there for everyone to see.


Toy_Master_54 69M  
605 posts
1/30/2021 7:47 pm

    Quoting lionslair:
    Lets start being adults by leaving your politics out of our sex site. Put it on your FB, instagram, twitter, whatever floats your boat. This really isnt the platform for politics.
If it were that simple, perhaps you haven't noticed, but those "privately" owned outlets not only censor what you say, but if they don't like you, will delete your account. And this site to me, is an alternative lifestyle site, if you want a sex site, you might try one of the companies other sites.


goldwater34 68M
8 posts
1/30/2021 8:02 pm

    Quoting IMC1958:
    I don't remember when I started noticing.
    If you want to comment to a blog post, do it within that post.
    Unless you are what you are accusing everyone else to be - an attention whore. Then of course you create your own post, of course with a title that directly connects those two.
    When I saw it the first time, I was so naive to think it was a coincidence. Or maybe I gave you the benefits of doubt.
    But can we please stop this? The world is full of problems, it is time for you to stop being full of yourself. Pretty amazing how childish a grown up man can be.

    Noone here needs your questionable education. Keep it bottled up until someone asks you.

    Be constructive or be quiet, please.

    It is not even fucking funny anymore.

    IMC1958
In your own words "And it always is YOUR choice to read it or not."

So you can advise others to scroll by but you make an entire post pissed about someone else's blog. So don't practice what you preach?

And since you mentioned seeking attention, why are you blogging all secretive like about something that someone else is doing? Looks as though you want to police the blogs, and get attention for doing it.


IMC1958 replies on 1/30/2021 8:32 pm:
I would gladly not have mentioned anything, if this had not started to overtake the blog community.
So why don't you speak to the subject instead of trying to bash me?
But if bashing me is what you want, bring it on.

IMC1958 replies on 1/30/2021 8:38 pm:
And goldwater ...... I am trying to police the blog? Are we a little bit sensitive tonight?

jenny14 75T  
90361 posts
1/30/2021 10:31 pm

IMC

I don't know about whom you are talking but I hope the person follows your request! Somehow I doubt it though


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7021 posts
1/30/2021 10:48 pm

Guy's popsicle stand is in the toilet, so he's taking his lack of business sense and doubling down with a lack of common sense. Failure does that to people.


DrDoppler 67M
80 posts
1/31/2021 12:11 am


meltwill2 72M  
3813 posts
1/31/2021 12:59 am

I agree IMC1958, swim in the pool or get out....just don't pee in it!


goldwater34 68M
8 posts
1/31/2021 5:03 am

IMC1958 replies on 1/30/2021 9:32 pm:
I would gladly not have mentioned anything, if this had not started to overtake the blog community.
So why don't you speak to the subject instead of trying to bash me?
But if bashing me is what you want, bring it on.

IMC1958 replies on 1/30/2021 9:38 pm:
And goldwater ...... I am trying to police the blog? Are we a little bit sensitive tonight?

How is one blog taking over the community? It's one post. Not like it is 10 a day. Scroll past. Do you read every single blog that is posted? Do you decide what they can and cannot post? Are you made at LikesMatures because he posts 4 or 5 posts some days? That could be overtaking the blogs.

I'm not bashing you. You told someone else that if they do not like the political blogs not to read them, scroll past. Do you not see how hypocritical that is on your blog bashing someone for not liking their political blog? Your entire post is about bashing someone.

People can write whatever they like, its there blog. Just as you chose to write this blog bashing someone you do not like. Scroll past it.

I do not have to speak to him, because I can scroll past or I can read it. Just like I had the choice with your blog. Perhaps you should have taken your own advice and commented on the other blog rather than making a spectacle out of yourself.

I'm sure your heartfelt blog, begging someone to stop writing whatever they want on their blog, once a day, will change the course of history in the blogs.


IMC1958 replies on 1/31/2021 10:24 am:
goldwater,

i dont think you know which blogs I am talking about.
And your mockery does not have any effect on me.
But please tell me, how am I making a spectacle of myself?
You dont seem to have the balls to blog about things you dont like; do I have to share that feeling?

Plzrmeister 67M  
10473 posts
1/31/2021 5:37 am

If you want to comment to a blog post, do it within that post.

The reason this person is doing this, whether you agree with the approach or not, is because they are banned from commenting within said posts.

Exactly. Let's say you have me banned from commenting on your posts, but I read this one and was busting at the seams to make a comment. How do I accomplish that?

The only way to accomplish that is the manner in which the person you're referencing does it. Perhaps someone (you?) could contact the 'nameless' blocker and suggest they unblock the 'nameless' blockee. Then all the back and forth could happen within the blog.

Voila! Problem solved. Of course this is far too simple and, accordingly, unrealistice. Or is it?

Make Women Female Again


IMC1958 66F

1/31/2021 10:18 am

Okay guys ....

Let me take a deep breath.

Everyone can read and write whatever the heck they want. I never said otherwise.
I just don't see how bickering forth and back advances anything, carries any benefit for anyone other than silly entertainment.
So, if Person A adds a post to his blog with the intention of getting Person B all riled up, I just have to question the maturity of both.

Of course, as usual --- laughing ---- you and I are looking at the same tomato, but see something different. That's fine. On the day, hell freezes over, we actually might agree on something. But, nevertheless, thank you for your comment.

Strive for calm, but through balance, not through standing still...Friedrich Schiller
IMC1958


Plzrmeister 67M  
10473 posts
1/31/2021 12:24 pm

Everyone can read and write whatever the heck they want. I never said otherwise.

I just reread our post. We never alluded to anything even remotely close to addressing this, did we?

Not that I see. Perhaps that particular verbiage could be pointed out to us?

I just don't see how bickering forth and back advances anything, carries any benefit for anyone other than silly entertainment. So, if Person A adds a post to his blog with the intention of getting Person B all riled up, I just have to question the maturity of both.

Yeah, I'd have to agree 100% with that sentiment.

Did we just see the same tomato? Imagine.

On the day hell freezes over, we actually might agree on something.

Not sure the source of that bitterness?

Me either. Hope it felt good to get out though.

I apparently missed any discussion of how a person can respond within a blog they have been banned from responding in. Did you see anything of that nature?

I apparently missed that too. I'm pretty sure that was the only thing we were talking about. Oh well.......

There may be another deep breath coming.

Good for relaxation.

Make Women Female Again


IMC1958 replies on 1/31/2021 3:12 pm:
The source of bitterness?

No, the source is more likely a profound dislike of you.

Quote:
"""I apparently missed any discussion of how a person can respond within a blog they have been banned from responding in. Did you see anything of that nature? """

Now really, do I have to tell a grown up man how to deal with a conflict? A disagreement?
You have a one on one talk and work it out! Now is that a new concept to you and everyone else?
And if you can't work it out, swallow that pill and let it go.
Because your feud has nothing to do with anyone else. And if, like the latest one, the post is just posted to get a spiteful response, then it has even less to do with adult communication.


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