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lisamac197906 44F  
295 posts
4/3/2022 7:40 am
A different approach.


I let myself approach this new relationship differently. First, I did not seek out. I left it to fait and was rewarded. Secondly, I slowed everything down. There was no rush to make grand statements or changes to status. We relaxed into the journey and let it guide us. We learned about each other as people first and then about our wants needs and desires. Thirdly, I was honest and brave. I owned up to previous mistakes I had made and had the difficult conversations, no mater how terrified I was that it would send him packing. I learned to trust again. Last but by no means least, I recognized that the journey is as important as the destination.

Oh, and my little sub? She is blossoming. She has surrounded herself once again with friends who encourage her to be who she is and not what she thinks everyone wants her to be. She has begun rebuilding her cosy house together with them, secure in the knowledge that they will always be there to help if she slips again.

Much love to all.

Lisa Mac.

DancingDom 74M
22601 posts
4/3/2022 12:32 pm

Good to hear on both counts.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"



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