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lionslair 60F  
170 posts
8/2/2023 4:07 pm
"flirt" messages.

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drmgirl622 68F  
26107 posts
8/2/2023 4:11 pm

It is sad when they expect you to do all the work......


hungaroboy 46M

8/2/2023 4:27 pm

exactly.


Yern2lic 67M
1345 posts
8/2/2023 8:26 pm

In total agreement, jerryburns888 at the Y, chat sometime


YourCaptor 71M
8 posts
8/2/2023 10:41 pm

Agreed. It amazes me how many people say virtually nothing in their profiles, and maybe say something like, "If you have any questions, let me know."

Perhaps age has something to do with this?


lionslair replies on 8/3/2023 8:26 am:
I find this of all ages......20s to 70s

Tribal_Seed 57M
101 posts
8/3/2023 12:41 am

Worst being a hidden profile … wtf !!


lionslair replies on 8/3/2023 8:28 am:
Totally agree. So many times someone messages me and I try to go to a profile only to see its hidden. Why be on here if youre going to hide your profile?

stephenmasson 61M

8/3/2023 1:42 am

if u find what u seek would u live in LIVERPOOL


lionslair replies on 8/3/2023 8:24 am:
Ive never been to Liverpool so I could not say.

tastetester61 62M
1781 posts
8/3/2023 5:44 am

Some people don't join this site as a paying member for various reasons. Without a payed membership, they cannot message you, nor can they read or answer messages. I don't use flirts, but some may as a way of getting you to view what is available to you, including their blog. This may be the work around they use to get into active messaging/conversation. This is not an uncommonly used method here on alt, so it may be worthwhile to consider this when deciding what to do about a received flirt. The choice is all yours, of course.


lionslair replies on 8/3/2023 8:23 am:
I appreciate your input, and understand that....about not paying so cant read or message. However, if they are unwilling to pay a membership fee as I do, then I will just go with not dedicated enough or too broke to pay for it. In either case I will pass.
If they are serious, they can pay a month of membership to contact me.
Yes, I might miss out on someone. But they will also miss out on me.
I pay, I am dedicated enough, I expect the same of my sub. I do not want someone just playing nor a dependent.

hungaroboy 46M

8/3/2023 4:38 pm

Well, to be or not to be a paying member here is a very problematic issue. If you would have been reading reviews of this site like TrustPilot's, you wouldn't be sure to worth the money.
Plus here in Europe it is uncommon that a website says that "every month we recurringly charge your bank account and you have to disable it here". What happens if the site once disappears in the fog but the account is charged? These type of American practices are hated here in Europe and we don't subscribe to such a site as a paying "customer". This U.S. practice is too shady for us, Europeans.


lionslair replies on 8/3/2023 5:31 pm:
Well since you in Europe are not here in the US, it does not concern me if Europeans hate this practice, which I am sure is not exclusive to America.... as we have little chance of meeting since we live in different countries. I am speaking of my preferences.

lionslair replies on 8/3/2023 5:33 pm:
Not to mention ewwwww.... please dont posts on my blog again....abusing innocent animals makes my stomach turn. In this country we throw you in jail for that. You are not welcome on my blogs


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