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lionslair 60F  
170 posts
9/25/2023 10:50 am
its simple ....really, it is.

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drmgirl622 68F  
26194 posts
9/25/2023 11:09 am

It sounds pretty cut and dry to me


meltwill2 72M
3830 posts
9/25/2023 11:43 am

Some of the simplest things turn out to be the hardest, good luck....


BillywildMartin 73M

9/25/2023 11:58 am

It certainly can be, except for the distance. This newbie has read a few of Mistress's BLOGS including this one and if Mistress was closer, this newbie would meet with Mistress, as Mistress sounds like someone this newbie would like to get to know. But the distance is problemamtic ofr this newbie...


casio26 63M
2583 posts
9/25/2023 12:13 pm

What state do you live in?


DancingDom 74M
22621 posts
9/25/2023 12:21 pm

I fully believe in find out early on if a person is truly compatible. You meet soon in part to verify who they are. To see how they treat others in both social and family situations. On line role play, to me is silly and a waste of time before meeting. It is simply fantasy at that point on unrealistic. Distance is a bitch. Being close in age help to have cultural and historical reference. Need to be on similar wavelengths with religious and political perspectives. Have similar values. And most importantly able to talk openly and honestly to each other.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


boh99 68M
3172 posts
9/25/2023 12:34 pm

hope you find them, seems like you're worth it.


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
9/25/2023 12:37 pm

Yes, it is really that simple.
Compatibility on all day to day living, moral code, liking each other, as persons, human beings first.
Build friendship and all that.
Accept the differences and embrace the similarities.

Know, what is a want and a need, know what you need, or want and know the differences.

Be able to talk life and BDSM in an adult manner, without making all about you and your * youknowwhat * , making it all into some silly sex game.

DD, you write it, as i see it, too.


meltwill2 72M
3830 posts
9/25/2023 4:08 pm

rosaenaluin you do have a way with words * youknowwhat *...



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