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You know what they say about assuming... Blog starts in comments... ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~ |
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How is it possible that a picture of my cleavage, or a blog I wrote about subs has so many assumptions associated with it?? The messages I received today from male subs was unbelievable. They were a invitation for me. All about their limits and desires, and if I wanted to fulfill them... Look... Who would not be flattered by excessive attention? Unfortunately I am! Enough is enough... Did the male subs forget how to read? I state clearly that I am a verified SUB.. But yet the messages continue. I was asked yesterday to read a male subs writings and provide responses or critiques about it... Really?? Are you kidding me... My response was maybe they should blog.. I don't mind helping out anyone new to the lifestyle.. But that doesn't mean I will just constantly give you advice. There are numerous blogs, books, and articles to help all subs... I do not claim to be a know it all about the lifestyle. I blog about my real experiences, and things I feel I have a understanding about.... I don't understand about male subs.. And I really don't understand about female Domme's. And I am also trying not to get a attitude. But the assumption that I will read your writing, respond to it, answer endless questions, and give you advice, is not right. It's not fair to think I will do this. If you write me a message and I give you a pointer or two, leave well enough alone. Do not keep on sending me more messages. I am searching for my Dom. And I have gone through numerous trails and tribulations to learn about the lifestyle. Please don't put this kind of pressure and expectations upon me... It is not my job!!! ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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pac Well said! Sadly, some people cannot see beyond the end of their nose! They are completely unaware of anything other than their own needs!  A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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Sweet lady, No one puts pressure or expectations upon you, unless you let them; give them that permission. And, methinks, you are well too gifted and smart to permit that.
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You ought to see the mail I get being a lesbian sub.....I'm sure you can imagine 
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2/23/2021 10:45 am |
Yup. Assume. Ass. U. Me
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Well, profiles are available for those that do not have a paid membership. So a little slack must be given. They could be using their points to msg but I do not know if that will enable profile viewing. So putting something in the beginning of your profile that shows what you are into would be helpful. I'm new here and have not yet made up my mind if the membership is worthwhile. Seems to be more fakes than real BDSMers looking for their counterpart.
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Well I guess they read the title of your blog the other day, but didn't read/understand it properly. Perhaps they are just hard of thinking! Of course one problem with the male body, is when blood is directed to a certain part of the body, there is insuffcient supply to keep the brain functioning correctly.
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... Great points about what happens when you males think with the little head.. Loved it! Thanks...
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