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When is it time?? Blog starts in comments.. ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~ |
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The ongoing question about online verses reality just doesn't go away... Especially in a pandemic. But how long can you or should you stay in this precarious position? I am all for not rushing to learn about someone. And online works perfectly to accomplish this at first. There is no pressure sending emails, responding to blogs, IM's, and texts... Eventually though, you have to share pictures of yourself, talk on the phone, and participate in video calls, at the very least, to see if you want to meet? It is a progression that needs to happen for me. To validate the possible connection between a Dom and myself. Even then chemistry is fickle.. It doesn't matter how well you have gotten along online. Or how well your words and philosophies match. Words are just that, words... I am not trying to diminish the meanings of words. But online chatting cannot decipher my tone, my meanings and words can be magnified, taken out of context, or even thrown back at me, my integrity questioned. All based on a Dom's interpretations. I have read about Dom's saying looks, age, body styles, none of that matters to them.. Only attitude does.. I envy them... Unfortunately, I am not just attracted to a Dominant personality... In real life, If I am going to be on my knees, or bending over at the waist, attraction and connection is what I need and want.. At that point I don't give a fuck how smart you are... ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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 Slave rick
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Attraction and connection is what I need and want. I need the same thing and I suspect 99.9% of all the people on here desire that, regardless of what they say. Without them, any relationship will be doomed from the start. Make Women Female Again
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3/2/2021 5:42 am |
As long as you believe that the person you're seeking to meet is either dominant or submissive that marginalization will doom any relationship. Find someone that engages you deeply. A true connection goes beyond sex and lust. Its not enough to covet only their attitude, chemistry begins with intellect and heart.
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Expect what ever on line perception is about someone, to be different. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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pac I agree - online can give clues BUT is not the same as an actual meeting! Cheeky's story is so awful and such a warning for all!! A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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Online something as taking the tone of text out of context can ruin an entire conversation. I must be a greedy bastard because I demand intelligence and beauty. I would also say both of those things are completely subjective. I simply am all out of fucks to give about how anyone views someone I am attracted to. Simply because one is very smart does not mean they are also an animal. Aren't we all? I am always rewriting my profile because it is very hard to define ones self. I think you meet who you want when you are very comfortable doing so. I have always felt drawn to people long before I meet them. What would be the point otherwise. As always opinions vary and this has simply been mine. I will blow your mind like a verbal John Wilkes Booth
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Yes Intelligent... If it takes me 5 minutes of texting to explain what I said, yeah that conversation is pretty much ruined... Of course attraction is subjective... And I do believe we need to know someone deeper than just on appearances... I guess my blogging again is so I don't have to change my profile all the time.. But I do get your point... Thanks for your comments... ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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