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pac369 64F  
10505 posts
3/4/2021 3:05 am

Last Read:
3/7/2021 6:52 pm

My emotions...


Blog starts in comments..

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12700 posts
3/4/2021 3:25 am

Have been known to get the best of me from time to time. Being that I am Italian and a feisty Gemini doesn't help.. Why can't I have a little head to blame?? Anyhow...

When I am challenged in online conversations I cannot always rein in these emotions.. Sometimes I just get fired up! Feel the need to justify my position...

But when I am told that my words don't mean anything, that it's just talk, well... That becomes a itch that cannot be scratched...

My patience for excessive online/text conversations has grown thin.. Even though I understand the convenience of chatting like this. I can always answer a text at my leisure, or when I am free.. Of course during the day when we are all busy, it makes perfect sense. But after hours texting, lacks so much for me.. A little goes a very long way...

I want to hear a Dom's voice, their inflections, tones, opinions, influence, laughter, whatever they are feeling, as I get to know them...

Because what is the common online theme?? Ohh I know.. Just being quiet, not talking anymore... All because I said something you don't like, or I wasn't as enthralled with online banter and arousal, from one day to the next...

This online theme has become so predictable with many of you.. It is what brought me back to blogging, A outlet for my frustrations.. But honestly I am fucking sick of it! If you have the balls to insult me and my integrity, then have the balls to finish the conversation... But why do that?? When it's so much easier to just walk away...

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


Plzrmeister 67M  
10466 posts
3/4/2021 5:42 am

If you have the balls to insult me and my integrity.

I get what you're saying about them just going *poof* and vanishing. It can indeed be frustrating.

However .... If someone is insulting you & your integrity, further conversation would seem pointless - No? I would think that door is closed for good.

Yep .... Insults = Walk away.

And don't look back.....

Make Women Female Again


pac369 replies on 3/4/2021 9:58 am:
Yes. I hear what you are saying.. Just hard for me to accept. I don't like unresolved issues or feelings.. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, it does help..

DancingDom 74M
22592 posts
3/4/2021 5:44 am

I simply can't imagine texting. I have not done it and will not do it. I don't have the type of phone activated to do such i the first place. I get frustrated with simple correspondence that blog sort of is in the first place. You can't tell what a writer is doing in nuance, it it straight forward, is it sarcasm/humorous (perhaps only to them) if there any other emotion connected to the words?

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


pac369 replies on 3/4/2021 10:04 am:
Damn DD you don't text? You might be the first I have heard on here that doesn't.. But yes, intentions, nuances, sarcasm are hard to interpret through text. So.. I do agree about it getting very frustrating.. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this...

drmgirl622 68F  
26123 posts
3/4/2021 6:18 am

Sometimes just a quick text can lift the spirit, though


pac369 replies on 3/4/2021 10:06 am:
I agree with you drmgirl... Texts during the day can be wonderful! But as the main means of communication, no... Thanks for your thoughts..

Dave54321 61M
2718 posts
3/4/2021 1:20 pm

Unfortunately online, people tend to be more rude, say & treat people in a way
they wouldn't do in real life. Stopping the conversation after they've wound you
up, or insulted you, is probably part of the plan, their way of ensuring they have
the last word.

You are right of course they should carry the conversation on till the end.
The fact that they don't, suggests to me that they are not worthy of your time.


pac369 replies on 3/4/2021 2:56 pm:
Absolutely.. Which is why I hate online so much.. Your point about having the last word.. I had not thought about it that way.. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with me.

jenny14 75T  
90355 posts
3/4/2021 3:33 pm

pac

I agree- ! Blogging allows us to express ourselves

If in conversation the other person tells you to be quiet, they clearly are not interested in you except as a sex object! (Unless it is part of an agreed scene)


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


pac369 replies on 3/4/2021 3:53 pm:
I always enjoy hearing your thoughts... Thank you jenny!

IntelligentBull 49M
118 posts
3/6/2021 11:59 pm

If your words do not matter to the Dominant......Why the fuck should he even be a blip on your radar. And yes I need to hear her voice and I want her to hear mine. I do not text on my cell phone...EVER. Words can very much be weapons and so can your voice if you know what to say and exactly how to say it. As for just walking away....I guess it is simply easier for them. Sadly age has nothing to do with maturity.

I will blow your mind like a verbal John Wilkes Booth


pac369 replies on 3/7/2021 3:27 pm:
I do like the fact you don't text.. Nice to hear that in this day and age.. Words can definitely be weapons if one chooses to use them that way. Thanks for your thoughts and comments..


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