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pac369 64F  
10505 posts
3/5/2021 5:18 am

Last Read:
3/7/2021 4:14 pm

Looking for fun??


Blog begins in comments..

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12700 posts
3/5/2021 5:34 am

What does that even mean? But yet I see it over and over in Dom's profiles...

All age Dom's just want to have fun... Does it actually work? Especially in the middle of a pandemic...

I certainly don't ask what they mean. Their interpretation of fun is probably not mine.

But I would think they mean " no strings attached", "friends with benefits", or just a "one time fuck"..

In our lifestyle choice, in our day and age, how dangerous could that be? Where you actually let someone you have no clue about, compromise you in any way...

A wonderful blogger responded to me earlier this week, about physical abuse after 4 months of online chat and actual time together..

I am reading a book that talks quite extensively on meetings. And the different ways you can protect yourself be forehand. But no where does it mention " just going for it, and meeting up to fuck"!

Which further arouses my curiosity about the responses these "fun" Dom's get?? Are they getting the bot, fake profile, activity because of their profiles?

A article I read last week said scammers made 300 million last year from dating websites.. Hopefully no one from Alt is in that category.

But when I see a profile of a Dom, talking about fun, these are some of the things that go through my head...

And I cannot imagine the majority of subs responding to that on Alt..

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


DancingDom 74M
22592 posts
3/5/2021 5:41 am

It's March, so I am looking for the Pot of Gold a the end of an Irish Rainbow. Pretty sure I will be lucky enough to get Irish Fish & Chips tonight.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


pac369 replies on 3/5/2021 4:50 pm:
You crack me up DD Thank you...

drmgirl622 68F  
26123 posts
3/5/2021 6:05 am

Fun had a different meaning in my youth. Now as I mature fun holds a much deeper meaning. Fun is attending the theater, fishing along the coast, dining out, picnics on the beach, spending time in Key West, a spirited discussion, etc. Sex becomes icing on the cake that makes your eyes sparkle and your heartbeat quicken.


pac369 replies on 3/5/2021 4:55 pm:
How wonderfully spoken drmgirl! We sometimes forget how different we were 20 or 30 years ago. Thank you for sharing..

lochaberaxeman13 64M

3/5/2021 10:40 am

I think in most cases it's just a way to break the ice, and at the same time, signal that they are safe, and sane, and...fun


pac369 replies on 3/5/2021 5:00 pm:
Ok.. Those are good points you are making.. Always interesting to hear other perspectives... Thank you for sharing..

jenny14 75T  
90355 posts
3/5/2021 11:11 am

pac

I agree that in these times , we need to be especially cautious because of Covid!

I also agree , as a separate issue, the safety measures you outline are essential !

A great post


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


pac369 replies on 3/5/2021 5:02 pm:
Thank you so much jenny! Your thoughts and perspectives are so welcome.. I appreciate it more than you know...

Kinkyguy462 44M

3/5/2021 7:46 pm

Always interesting reading your blog posts


pac369 replies on 3/6/2021 6:25 am:
Thank you kinky... I appreciate you reading..

IntelligentBull 49M
118 posts
3/6/2021 11:45 pm

First things first for me I never meet to do any of the things mentioned. I always come with strings or not at all. The best things in life are not easy and I am far from it. Honestly as far as Dominant's profiles go...I have not actually checked out any for reasons that should be very obvious. But I think the way I wrote mine....It implies so much more than fun....I am sure fun has It's appeal to most but if that is your selling point? I personally would aim higher.

I will blow your mind like a verbal John Wilkes Booth


pac369 replies on 3/7/2021 3:19 pm:
Well.. Yes.. Intelligent. It seems obvious you are searching and seeking more than a hookup.. Your name says it all.. But I thoroughly enjoy hearing your perspective, as I think other subs would to. Thank you for taking the time to respond.


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