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pac369 64F  
10505 posts
3/10/2021 9:01 am

Last Read:
3/11/2021 4:48 pm

A tribute...

~ Since I can't trust alt not to delete or edit my words. I will repeat this blog in comments~

To my ex Dom Robert who is unresponsive, in a hospital waiting to die...

Ohh how I have loved this man, my Dom! My tears and sadness know no bounds right now...

So... I try to focus on the good times. All the years and so many good memories we shared together.

And wishing things would have ended differently for us. Because again, I realize how much I truly loved him! And I hope with all my heart he knew that? I spoke with him 2 weeks ago. We laughed and joked like we usually did. He sounded good, like he was responding to his newest treatment. I am so grateful I had that last conversation with him...

This man suffered tremendously in his last few years. But he always stayed positive no matter what! And I always admired him for that.. His courage and bravery was evident everyday.

Kiss or hold your significant other a little closer today or the next time you see them... Because our lives are precious, especially with the ones we truly love...

I will always love you Robert! There is a place in my heart for you forever!



~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12700 posts
3/10/2021 9:12 am

To my ex Dom Robert who is unresponsive, in a hospital, waiting to die..

Ohh how I loved this man, my Dom! My tears and sadness know no bounds right now...

So... I try to focus on the good times.. All the years and so many good memories we shared together...

And wishing things would have ended differently for us. Because again, I realize how much I truly loved him! And I hope with all my heart he knew that? I spoke with him 2 weeks ago. We laughed and joked as we usually did. He sounded good, like he was responding to his newest treatment. I am so grateful I had that last conversation with him...

This man suffered tremendously in his last few years. But he always stayed positive no matter what! And I always admired him for that. His courage and bravery was evident everyday.

Kiss or hold your significant other a little closer today or the next time you see them. Because our lives are precious, especially with the ones we truly love.

I will always love you Robert!!! There is a place in my heart for you forever!

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


Toy_Master_54 69M  
605 posts
3/10/2021 9:33 am

Family member, friend, spouse or significant other, we never know when will be the last time we can ever talk to them, hold them, laugh or cry with them.

Enjoy them with all you have while you have them, remember them the way you need to when you don't, hoping that they are in a better place for them after that.

Loss is never easy.


pac369 replies on 3/10/2021 11:37 am:
Thank you Toy.. You are so right..

jenny14 75T  
90351 posts
3/10/2021 9:45 am

pac

A warm hug!

I just hope you both find some peace among the sadness....

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


pac369 replies on 3/10/2021 11:38 am:
Thank you jenny! That's very kind of you..

Finallymetime 58F

3/10/2021 10:02 am

My heart aches for you

Into the woods I go, to lose my mind and find my soul.


pac369 replies on 3/10/2021 11:38 am:
My heart aches to.. Thank you!

Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
3/10/2021 10:09 am

Amazing sentiments and fully understood only by those people who have felt a similar loss. No-one ever said life was fair, but sometimes it just plain sucks!


pac369 replies on 3/10/2021 11:40 am:
Thank you! Your kind words mean a lot.. Life does suck right now..

drmgirl622 68F  
26123 posts
3/10/2021 10:38 am

Life can be so fleeting and I'm so glad you were able to have that last conversation with him....prayers for you both.


pac369 replies on 3/10/2021 11:41 am:
Thank you drmgirl!

Plzrmeister 67M  
10466 posts
3/10/2021 11:46 am

I send my condolences to you ... The pain you feel comes through in your words.

My condolences too ... Life indeed is precious and fleeting.

Make Women Female Again


pac369 replies on 3/10/2021 3:45 pm:
Thank you..

IntelligentBull 49M
118 posts
3/10/2021 12:03 pm

I cannot even imagine what you are going through right now. But the sheer fact that you are so hurt means that you are also so very capable of love on a level few would understand. He sounds like an amazing person and the world needs more people exactly like that.......At times like this my vocabulary fails me and I struggle to find the words.

I will blow your mind like a verbal John Wilkes Booth


pac369 replies on 3/10/2021 3:47 pm:
Thank you Intelligent! Your kind words mean a lot..

RavenousRaven777 56M
380 posts
3/10/2021 1:15 pm

A tribute well received. May we all be able to take a little from it and keep these thoughts in our hearts. Condolences.


pac369 replies on 3/10/2021 3:47 pm:
Thank you!

LadySami508 54F
25 posts
3/10/2021 2:14 pm

Prayers for you both.


pac369 replies on 3/10/2021 3:48 pm:
Thank you very much...

Dave54321 61M
2718 posts
3/10/2021 2:55 pm

So sorry to hear this, my thoughts go out to both of you.
Sending a warm hug from the UK.
Best wishes.


pac369 replies on 3/10/2021 3:49 pm:
Thank you Dave..

Tckg12 69M
2510 posts
3/11/2021 2:25 am

sorry to hear about this. thought sna dprayers for you and his family


pac369 replies on 3/11/2021 8:57 am:
Thanks...

aliljaded 53F
8928 posts
3/11/2021 5:39 am

I lost my children's father suddenly six years ago. I found this passage that I posted to my blog, the words soothed me. I hope they help in a minuscule way. I'm sorry for the suffering you're feeling and the loss you're about to go through. Peace be with you.

https://alt.com/blog/aliljaded/The-Shape-Of-Loss-1123067?trlid=blog_post_row-26#bdsm?{}

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


pac369 replies on 3/11/2021 9:00 am:
Thank you aliljaded.. He did pass yesterday. Your passage is not highlighted. But I will find it in the next few days. Thank you for sharing it with me!

leolix22 60M

3/11/2021 2:57 pm

I am so sorry for you but wish you the best.



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