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What we leave behind... Just because your gone doesn't mean people don't think about you! The memories we share will always be there whether someone is dead or alive.. I drove over 450 miles today to find out my truth... What the last weeks were like for my previous Dom .. It wasn't pretty. And nothing I care to share... My intention was to help his current caretaker/ ex/roommate with his belongings.. Instead she and I talked for 5 1/2 hours. Sharing so many stories, filling in many blanks... And while there was still some tears, it was not bad... A sense of closure came over me today.. my questions answered... A wonderful sense of relief... Of course I am still sad... But here's the sadder part... If you don't leave a will, your affairs become a horrible mess. That goes probate court be divided.. My ex felt he would be validating his sickness if he completed the will... I know is this! One of my next projects is doing my own will. ~~ ALT BLOGGERS. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR KIND THOUGHTS AND WORDS!! ~~ ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~ |
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Good point. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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A will and the last directive. A DNR. Something that gives someone an idea of your final wishes if you are not able to make decisions for yourself. I'm proud of you. and I don't even know you. Well done. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I made a will years back when I was fairly young. Knowing you are a husband and father and heading to war more than good enough reason. I have changed and amended it as the wife became the x wife. Shuddersssssssss. I now have a DNR in place and I have my reasons. To a select few I am sure I am worth more dead than alive. Walk your own path and enjoy life but do it with the understanding that you are never guaranteed to wake back up. I will blow your mind like a verbal John Wilkes Booth
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pac What you say re leaving a Will and DNR Orders is so important! I am glad you have a sense of relief and, we NEVER forget those we love(d) A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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I'm so glad you were able to gain some insight into your Dom's final days.....it helps soothe the soul. When my Mom died she made things so easy for myself and my siblings. After her death I immediately went to her lawyer and set up a trust and Medical POA. I already have funeral plans made and paid for as well. I don't see it as morbid rather I look at it as a gift for those left behind.
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I'm glad you managed to find a sense of closer. It's a good point about the will, I must do mine, I keep putting it off, I guess it's something we don't really want to think about.
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