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Almost a perfect day.... See below...   ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~ |
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It was a almost perfect day.... Getting off this morning with my favorite toy! Then playing some golf this afternoon.... The only thing that could have made it better was having someone to share it with... I have been in a bit of a funk... Mostly... because I am tired of being alone...So, I realize I have to get out more. Live my life. Do what I enjoy. Take care of myself. And stop focusing so much on finding a Dom. It will happen when it's meant to happen.. Until then... I will focus on me... ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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Keep the faith.. but a small bit of advice; Life's a lil ironic.. seems it's when you're NOT looking, is when you finally meet someone.. while you're busy browsing profiles, that one good candidate is at your favorite local hangout talking to someone else.
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yes take care of yourself first. make yourself happy and that will show. you will feel better about yourself too.. you will find what you need as you said when the time is right
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Hey pac, I too have been in a bit of a funk myself-just.....tired of it all. I am going to try and follow your advice and work on myself a bit. *hugs*
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5/11/2021 6:17 pm |
I agree..you myst make yourself happy and that "glow" will show even in your chats.
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Some days are just so long when you're alone and it can really affect everything around you. You are important and that's all that matters.
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Nothing at all wrong with enjoying things at home first, even though it's not quite as satisfying not sharing. Depending on how wicked things are shared, they could make playing golf more interesting too.
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Lots of good thoughts here. It truly is important to not let the loneliness push us into doing foolish things. Lots of lonely people out there. Many of us have stayed apart while waiting on the vaccine. I for one am fully vaccinated and have my first date in a long time on Friday. No expectations, just hoping for friendly company and maybe a real drought breaker. The silver lining in my pandemic life is the fact that I was able to use that time alone to become more comfortable with being alone. My hope is that that new comfort level makes me a better companion...
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5/11/2021 8:29 pm |
Would have liked to have partnered you in both the getting off and the round of golf. 
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its ok to get out and enjoy yourself, its hard to find the right person, and usually when looking hard they dont come by, and when your not looking or expecting they fall right into your life.
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pac I hope you find some-one soon ( I know not easy especially given Covid!) but, yes, we must learn to be happy as best we can I too think it is a GREAT way to start the day - a favourite toy, then a loved activity  A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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5/12/2021 12:35 am |
Time for yourself get out have little fun what happens will happen maybe stop trying so hard give life a chance xxx
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Glad you had an almost perfect day. Hope the right Dom finds you soon.
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5/13/2021 5:38 am |
No greater feeling than a beautiful mid morning start to a round of golf on a sunny day, a gentle cool breeze blowing in your face as you tee it up on the first hole, the smack of the driver on the ball and watching it fly straight down the fairway. Unfortunately for me, the powers that be in our province closed golf courses here a month ago and guess what, it is the only jurisdiction in entire North America with no golfing! How ridiculous is that? At the same time they closed down playgrounds but reversed that the very next day as the outcry was swift and loud. Can I come play a round with you? Would love to play around too.
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