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Please don't make me have to.... See below....  ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~ |
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BLOCK YOU..... Which I had to do to a Dom yesterday. Personally, I do not like being blocked. Where I am made to feel I did something wrong... So I don't just block indiscriminately... But when I give a inch and you take a mile. Well... there you go.. I told a Dom in a text " I was not interested in talking anymore".. He said "cool".. I didn't think twice about it.. The next morning I get a text saying "good morning, beautiful", huh? I know the text could have been worse, or maybe your thinking what's the big deal? The big deal is not listening to someone's words. So I blocked him... I felt no other explanation was necessary. Because he didn't listen to me the day before... Most of the time I am not afforded the same courtesy.. A Dom will just block you without you even knowing it. Because he assumes you are going to blow up his phone or inbox. Which I choose not to do.. Sending anyone message, after message, after message, without them responding is sorta pathetic on your part.. Getting older has changed my mindset on this...While I will send a message or text, I am not going to keep sending you messages of any kind. Communication is a two way street and so necessary in our lifestyle. But it is also abused at a alarming rate... When you can feel the desperation in a text that's saying a lot... This pandemic, restrictions, and isolation has effected some peoples mental health and common sense I fear... And I, for one, am happy we are starting to return to our normal lives... But trying to demand that someone talks to you is not the way to go... Many times as hard as it is to accept:; no answer is your answer! ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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5/17/2021 2:13 am |
If people don't understand simple straight message of I don't want to chat anymore .............what the hell do you think it means it means no more thank you xxx
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If you are at the stage where you are considering blocking someone, things have probably already deteriorated past the point of no return so enacting that block should be a simple matter. And you should never feel guilty about it too.
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I know. I will tell someone if I don't want to talk any longer, and they get blocked if they keep on, with MAYBE one message between as a warning if I'm feeling nice.
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There are some instincts you have to follow. And there is a reason why they have the "block" feature. You use it as you see fit.
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I typically don't block unless I'm pushed but make no bones about it.....I will block if necessary !
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pac Well said! "No" means "No"! in everything! A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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5/17/2021 3:57 am |
The exception is if you have a strong relationship but have hit a rough patch. An example is in "When Harry Met Sally". Harry called Sally over and over and sometimes it pays off. There is a balance, however if someone requests to be left alone, do the decent thing and respect their wish. Contacting again is deluded optimism and a demonstration that you value yourself far higher than the recipient.
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Amen to that. I also dont like to block someone. I will gladly let them have their say. But then ALOT of folks become dicks and use the opportunity to take personal swipes
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There are times when you can't find a big enough hammer to beat the stupid out of people. Bad people require bad things to happen to protect ourselves.
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La comunicación es importante y parte de ella es saber escuchar. Saludos Y quizás un instante sirva para trazar el camino que me guíe hacia tus ojos.
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They need to go back to Dom retrain school since the whole dynamic dance is not understood. It is their job to be active some type of way to Draw the submissive/slave towards desiring to dance with them. Remember submissive/slave(s), the Dominant has to be Your choice. They have to lure you, keep your panties wet and blow your mind, completely. Well that's how I started my journey and it has worked for me. How to capture a good masochist is what I am working on as I wish to eventually marry. Best wishes and congrats on making top blogger, quite deserving 
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