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pac369 64F  
10486 posts
5/30/2021 9:42 am

Last Read:
7/22/2021 5:03 pm

Are you one of these people??

See below...


~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12701 posts
5/30/2021 9:50 am

I have been all of them at one point or another. Depending on what was happening in my life at the time...

And even now... While I try to be wise; it's not easy..

So... that "stubborn people" raises it's ugly head again and again...

Hopefully, I will lean more and more towards a "wise people" in time...

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


gor1111 70M

5/30/2021 9:54 am

Hard to be wise all the time heart rules head then head rules heart we make the best we can of life xxx


pac369 replies on 5/30/2021 9:58 am:
No doubt gor... It is hard to be wise all the time! Thanks for sharing your thoughts...

DomJoe1954 70M
4 posts
5/30/2021 10:01 am

I consider myself a wise person who never forgets as well as believes a leopard's spots don't change.


pac369 replies on 5/30/2021 10:12 am:
Really good points Joe! Most of us will not change our "spots" so to speak..

1uncommondom 77M

5/30/2021 10:03 am

Stubborn, ignorant, wise
is the distance between
learning an understanding.


pac369 replies on 5/30/2021 10:13 am:
Very well said 1uncommon! I believe that to be true..

bill281 65M

5/30/2021 10:18 am

I would like to say that I am wise. Sometimes I act wisely, but I am far from perfect.


pac369 replies on 5/30/2021 10:47 am:
None of us are perfect bill... But we can strive to get better for sure. Thanks for the comments..

FL_Firmhand 64M

5/30/2021 10:27 am

Fool me once shame on you
Fool me twice shame on me


pac369 replies on 5/30/2021 10:48 am:
Absolutely Fl... Haven't heard that phrase in a while.. Thanks for reminding me..

IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1549 posts
5/30/2021 10:35 am

I must be half ignorant and half stubborn because I forget shit all the time.


pac369 replies on 5/30/2021 10:49 am:
Maybe that's a good thing?? Thanks for sharing..

drmgirl622 68F  
26146 posts
5/30/2021 10:36 am

It definitely depends on the perpetrator. I'm typically a forgive but I'm never a forget.


pac369 replies on 5/30/2021 10:51 am:
I hear that drmgirl.. Very hard for me to forget when I have been wronged or betrayed.. Thanks for sharing..

OldJeakel 73M
377 posts
5/30/2021 10:43 am

ummmm, yes? lol


pac369 replies on 5/30/2021 10:51 am:
Yeah...

rope_n_cuffs 78M  
949 posts
5/30/2021 11:10 am

I never forget, sometimes forgive, but more often distance myself from those that upset or hurt me. They only get one chance. What in hell does that make me, a malevolent old grump?


pac369 replies on 5/30/2021 1:44 pm:
Well I can't answer that... Just seems like you know what you can tolerate and what you can't.. Nothing wrong with that.. Thanks for sharing that..

Plzrmeister 67M  
10503 posts
5/30/2021 11:45 am

To err is human .... To forgive devine.

Neither of which is Marine Corps policy.

Make Women Female Again


pac369 replies on 5/30/2021 1:45 pm:
Yeah... My Dad was a Marine, so I hear you loud and clear!

Aislin 39F  
8605 posts
5/30/2021 11:55 am

I am a grudge keeper but I am getting better at it

I am aroused by my own darkness and there is no cure.


pac369 replies on 5/30/2021 1:47 pm:
Ahhh Aislin.. There are times when nothing but a grudge will do! But I am glad you are getting better at it.. Thanks for sharing..

Painter777 64M  
30 posts
5/31/2021 4:00 am

we all have been at sometime all,but through the years..


pac369 replies on 5/31/2021 6:32 am:
Yeah.. I think we become better with age.. Thanks for sharing.

Ronsalter35 38M
3 posts
5/31/2021 6:05 am

Being all of them is what makes us human.


pac369 replies on 5/31/2021 6:33 am:
Nice perspective! I like it.. Thanks

Gowron 69M
3113 posts
5/31/2021 6:53 am

"Kein vergeben, kein vergessen"
(never to forgive, never to forget)


pac369 replies on 5/31/2021 11:01 am:
Damn Gowron... Best not to get on your bad side!

NoNonsense_Dom 70M  
1540 posts
6/26/2021 10:18 pm

    Quoting Aislin:
    I am a grudge keeper but I am getting better at it
Better in what way sexy Aislin, keeping them for longer or not keeping them at all. Some people do just deserve them though.


NoNonsense_Dom 70M  
1540 posts
6/26/2021 10:23 pm

Well Pac, I am the type of person who never really forgives and I definitely never forget, although I do keep the old saying front and center of mind - 'that we all make mistakes', so long as something is not done out of spite, I generally temper my feelings towards the person concerned until another example or deed is done. Then they just get wiped like a dirty arse and are dropped into the ignore at any cost category. I do not suffer fools or idiots lightly.


pac369 replies on 6/27/2021 3:53 am:
I certainly believe you would be that way NNDom... Nice to have you say hello again.. I hope all is well with you... Thanks..


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