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pac369 64F  
10504 posts
8/18/2021 7:06 am

Last Read:
8/19/2021 8:24 pm

Is it the silence or the drool??

pac wonders what the fascination is with a ball gag?

While not something pac wore all the time, she certainly has worn one enough times...

To know the freedom of yelling in a apartment and certainly the feeling of all that drool coming out...

But is there more too it?? Is it more of a humiliation aspect or even a discipline tool??


~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12700 posts
8/18/2021 7:07 am

Inquiring minds would like to know...

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


sletje1999 24F
134 posts
8/18/2021 7:58 am

I think there is something about ball gags. It makes you "speechless" and you have to find other means to communicate. It can be both highly erotic and traumatizing, depending on the circumstances. For me letting someone put a ball gag on me is another form of submission: "I'm all yours and trust you to not abuse the power you have over me!"


pac369 replies on 8/18/2021 5:27 pm:
Very well spoken sletje...

Your thoughts and experiences are really appreciated...

Thanks for sharing...

Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
8/18/2021 8:09 am

TBH< I never really got the use of a ball gag... Mouths are so much more fun and I disliked having my access to them "blocked" as it were.

But later a playmate told me about the drool, and she suggested I try it as she knew I loved it messy!

So I gave it a go, and yes they are wonderful. I love kissing a wet drooling mouth/face. Would not want a ball gag to be used all of the time, or indeed even most of the time... But as a nice change for a bit of variety, I love 'em!


pac369 replies on 8/18/2021 5:29 pm:
I can relate with all of that WT...

But the "bit of variety" is how I also prefer them..

Thanks for sharing your experiences..

IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1547 posts
8/18/2021 8:17 am

I enjoy her drooling sloppiness and the lovely sounds, the moans and groans and whimpers, without interruption from....words.


pac369 replies on 8/18/2021 5:31 pm:
I didn't think of it that way Iso... The sounds without words...

That's beautiful in it's self...

Thanks..

daddy19484u 75M

8/18/2021 8:18 am

So beautiful


pac369 replies on 8/18/2021 5:31 pm:
She is lovely...

Thanks...

pzkw 63M  
1283 posts
8/18/2021 8:25 am

I like ball gags. I especially like seeing the sub's drool - I guess it's because the sub is secreting something, and has no control over that secretion. Plus, I love to lick & suck the drool off of the sub's skin. I find the more complicated head harness gags to be really exciting, especially when watching a top gag their bottom -again, it's about the sub not having any control. Plus, if the sub is struggling, the pleas and supplications to be released can't be heard.

I heard that, if you want to make your sub drool from around a gag, have them drink something about 20 or 30 minutes before gagging them - this somehow gets the saliva glands "revved up", so when gagged, there might be a torrent of drool. Of course, cloth gags tend not to allow the sub to drool too much (n.b.: not a big fan of cloth gags).

Of course, safety is of paramount importance, so it's necessary to make sure your sub can either swallow all their saliva or let it slip out around the gag - you don't want your sub choking and gagging on their own spit, ruining your playtime.


pac369 replies on 8/18/2021 5:35 pm:
I can see you have had some nice encounters with a ball gag pzkw...

And yeah, safety is of the utmost concern...

Thanks for pointing that out and all your thoughtful comments..

boundandusedbyu 64M
54 posts
8/18/2021 8:34 am

I love ballgame on my female partners as long as they are sized correctly. so may times I've seen videos where the ball is so small or loose, they just talk around it.
I love the ability to kiss and lick my partners ballgagged mouth. The way their eyes are used to communicate their wants, desires and pleading are a turn on for me. and then the drool sounds, the attempt to suck it in, to prevent it and the further incapacity to create speech while drooling is wonderful.


pac369 replies on 8/18/2021 5:37 pm:
I totally understood what you meant bound...

Yeah, size would be so important... If a ball gag is in my mouth, sounds should come out but not normal conversations...

Thanks so much for sharing your experiences...

boundandusedbyu 64M
54 posts
8/18/2021 8:34 am

ball gag, not ball game! sorry!


pac369 replies on 8/18/2021 5:37 pm:

Minter 74M
72 posts
8/18/2021 8:54 am

I've never liked being on either end of a ball gag.


pac369 replies on 8/18/2021 5:38 pm:
I can appreciate that to Minter...

They are not for everyone...

Thanks for sharing..

drmgirl622 68F  
26107 posts
8/18/2021 11:15 am

The Domme loves to hear those muffled cries and the drool excites.


pac369 replies on 8/18/2021 5:40 pm:
Yeah... It is such a helpless feeling for the sub...

I would think it turns on most Dom/mes

Thanks for sharing drmgirl...

Rassilon_AB 60M
89 posts
8/18/2021 11:55 am

If you want drool get a St Bernard (or similar).


pac369 replies on 8/18/2021 5:41 pm:
Very unique response..

Thanks..

rosaenaluin 65F
11006 posts
8/18/2021 1:33 pm

I prefere a bit, like the one horses have in their mouths.....

But like for a very small horsy.... deu to having a very small jaw....

I like rubber bits the most, so i can bite into them.....
my jawjoints cant handle the pressure of ball gag.

Drooling is loss of decorum, i hate that! LOL


pac369 replies on 8/18/2021 5:43 pm:
That is really interesting rose... A bit like a horse uses...As I also have a small jaw I will have to remember that...

Thanks soo much for sharing that..

Suzy_Que 53T
1245 posts
8/18/2021 2:16 pm

That picture is very... is stimulating the word I'm looking for? Maybe enticing?

I've been curious about how a ball gag would feel, but I've never had the pleasure of experiencing one. I guess I never realized that a verbal restraint could be as exciting as physical ones, especially if someone is open to receiving whatever is given to them without question. I suppose moans and screams are part of a universal language, so any messages will still come through.

Add it to the "maybe someday, hopefully soon" list!


pac369 replies on 8/18/2021 5:46 pm:
I think the pic is beautiful myself...

Ball gags are just a different way of complying with a Dom... And personally it looks hot.. Just doesn't mean I want to wear one all the time..

Maybe one day you will experience it Suzy?

Thanks for your thoughts...

Gowron 69M
3112 posts
8/19/2021 11:33 am

    Quoting pac369:
    Inquiring minds would like to know...
The drool is a sure sign you're helpless.
You can't spit, you can't swallow, all you can do is feel the drool get you wet.

The same goes for not being able to speak clearly. Desperating. Humiliating.
I find the sound extremely arousing.

And there's something sensual about having your mouth filled.


pac369 replies on 8/19/2021 12:49 pm:
Wonderful points Gowron... I really agree with them..

I appreciate you taking the time to share them...


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