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Ohhh my... Could this be your reality some day?? Because it's much scarier than it looks with this comic... pac has had hands and belts on her throats by men she did not know... And it's amazing no harm came to her... Because.... she thought they were so into her! Months ago pac wrote this in a blog.... Just because someone desires you, it does not mean that they value you... Read it over... Again.... Let those words resonate in your mind... It's easier said then done... But protect yourself by taking the time to know a Dom/me... Don't be pressured into "playing" before your ready... In real life there is nothing comical about this comic...  ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~ |
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 ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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so true!
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I like it  Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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I was once a volunteer at 'APEX'... I'll provide a link if you wish.. but I saw far too many examples of people more interested in the kink than the lifestyle itself there.. unfortunately for some, it led to injury at the hands of someone who thought having cool toys automatically made them a Dominant
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Yes, a VERY dangerous position for a sub who doesn't know the dom(me) REAL well. Not only can't she utter a safe word or even give a safe signal with her hands, if she doesn't know the dom(me) then words and signals might not matter anyway. But there are those who thrive on thrill I guess (or more like danger). No, not smart, but giver the last several years, there are a lot of not smart people around.
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I absolutely agree, PAC. Sometimes, in our urge to quench our desires, we overlook safety. While I agree that instinct can intensify such desires, is logic and reason that may allow us to play yet another day in the future. And yes Twisted, I totally agree with you too. And that notion sometimes scare me when I meet some folks.
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 Slave rick
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when I engage in rope bondage with a sub , and we are new to each other, I always have one arm that she can release at any time. Even with that arm being tied, it can be secured in a way for quick release. Makes the session so much more safe and enjoyable.
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9/8/2021 10:00 am |
You're value doesn't decrease because of someone's inability to see it. To understand your worth remember; price is what you pay, value is what you get.
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When I saw this, I thought .... "And the idiot probably left her there alone while he went to the grocery store." A submissive's first priorities are her safety and mental welfare. The seasoned submissive knows this. Unfortunately, the new(er) submissives have to learn the hard way many times. Make Women Female Again
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This all could go so wrong. I know there were vanilla things I did that still make me shudder and thank the Lord it all worked out.
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The physical sensations and the mental stimulation or at least the thoughts and imagination of then can easily lead to "sub frenzy" where the submissive get so wrapped up in the anticipation that they lose their perspective and better judgement goes out the window. I've had a coupe subs move on to a rapidly developing situation ( I won't call it a relationship) that they saw as a more immediate gratification than the slower progress I offered. They didn't end well, not just with physical risks but financial and property loss as well. My advice, let the D/s relationship develop organically with real understanding by all. In the end the play and satisfaction will be greater.
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When,at first your thirst can be soo big, your mental capacity can go out of the door. Your/mine, longing for finally, finally "experience" SM in a safe way, (or so you think) is taking over your rational brain, dangerous situations can arise sub frenzy is a real bitch! I too, had some narrow escapes! Seanoned now,
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You think, you are in controle, of yourself (?) you can handle what ever is going to happen, ,but when you/ i are in that mental state, you capacity to react is gone. Dangerous situations can arise... I was never in that situation as in the picture. it got close though.... sighs....
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Ladies I have to agree, and hopefully appreciate your position on losing yourself to the rapture of the moment. But I do have to say that the cartoon "can" also be depicting the truth. Between partners who have history and trust .. in a relationship, not simply satisfying urges .. for both parties the more control given = more freedom gained. The sub's safety is the Dom's responsibility, that is the whole point of the relationship. You should not give this level of control to a stranger, any more than you should give them your car keys, bank account, or ask them to hold onto your pet handgrenade !
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pac This is wonderful advice! we can NEVER forget SSC!! A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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pac, I dont know about other submissives/slaves/masochistic women, but i do know, that i do shut down, that way life is bearable.... The longing is still there.. that will never go away. But, i can handle the emotional emptyness, the longing, the.... lack, the want better that way...... sighs.... I knów going back to vanilla is not going to happen, ever!
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