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pac369 64F  
10504 posts
9/16/2021 10:13 am

Last Read:
9/18/2021 6:57 am

I am not impressed...

THAT your profile pic is a cock shot...
THAT your married/attached and cheating doesn't mean a fuck to you...
THAT your a CEO or some other pretentious title...
THAT your coming too Az or Tucson...
THAT pac should meet with you and have dinner or play golf...
THAT you seek a "no limit" sub; fuck that!
THAT you state "age" is not a factor. But all your Alt friends are in their 20's and 30"s...
THAT you message me then disappear after a few days, too reappear again...
THAT just means the other sub conversations didn't work out... So fucking obvious!
THAT you assume you will own me...
THAT you think pac is stupid and only worth being a vessel for you to fuc..
THAT you are lying through your teeth about who you really are...

HERE IS WHAT IMPRESSES ME...

THAT you use a nice face or dressed profile pic...
THAT you have your life and shit together...
THAT you take the time too send me a introductory message...
THAT your message is unique too me, and not a cookie cutter copy...
THAT you actually read my profile and know pac is a sub...
THAT you realize she does not hook up, casually play, or become involved with attached or married Dom's... NO EXCEPTIONS!
THAT you read some of her blogs and see how she thinks...
THAT you DON"T ask me what my kinks are within a few messages...
THAT you don't demand my phone number immediately...
THAT you take the time and learn about me...
THAT you provide as much information as pac provides to you...
THAT you don't expect pac too call you Sir or Dom unless you are her Sir or Dom...

pac is sure there are many more for both lists that are not on my mind right now...

All potential relationships need time to develop... Especially within the D/s lifestyle... It's not a race to the finish line... A D/s relationship should progress naturally and not be forced or hurried... Especially, because one of you are lonely....


~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12700 posts
9/16/2021 10:14 am



~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
9/16/2021 10:49 am

preach!


pac369 replies on 9/16/2021 10:52 am:
Doesn't do any good.. Just makes me feel better..
Thanks Twisted..

Greybrow 64M
625 posts
9/16/2021 11:02 am

I for one appreciate your list. You define your boundaries and communicate it.


pac369 replies on 9/16/2021 11:05 am:
Thank you Grey...
I really appreciate you saying that..

manni_pr 52T
2609 posts
9/16/2021 11:05 am

Darn girl! Right on target! And there I thought I was getting all the creeps. It seems like common sense it's not so common. Would you copyright-sue me if I copy this and send it to 95% of the weirdos who contact me? LOL! Well done spelling it all out


pac369 replies on 9/16/2021 11:08 am:
Yeah.. It never ends either..

I would be flattered if you used my post manni... Just copy it quick before alt deletes those important words like "me, I, to"..

Thanks for the nice comments...

Keeptifun 63M

9/16/2021 11:57 am

Your hot


pac369 replies on 9/16/2021 12:03 pm:
Thank you..

drmgirl622 68F  
26126 posts
9/16/2021 12:22 pm

Just take things slow and things will come....the rest is just BS


pac369 replies on 9/16/2021 8:07 pm:
I am drmgirl...
Not in any hurry..
Just needing to vent a bit..

Thanks though..

rosaenaluin 65F
11039 posts
9/16/2021 12:56 pm

Preach! indeed!
Alas, those who react in that manner on your profile, or what they think is in your profile,
Cant, wont even read this!
i did write such blogs too.

The other day, this slave, in a lreal life, living together, M./s dynamic, told me, the most men on here, are not dominants, at all.

Maybe, if you are lucky, they are tops, with a real good sense of responsiblity, but not Dominants at all.
And no Masters, for sure!

I call them all; players, because it is all about THEM; ego driven, emotional 3 year olds, with a anger manegement problem, vanillas, most of the time.

Everyone with a ounce of SM/bdsm knowledge, & human interest, knows, it is something reciprocate
it is a two way street.

So, to find a dominant/master, (with sadistic tendencys) in my case,
looking here, is like looking for a hairdresser at the butcher...

Get it off your chest! is good for your mental state, i understand that! I know!


pac369 replies on 9/16/2021 8:09 pm:
You really can appreciate most of what I say rose..
We are in different countries with the same problems.. Just amazing isn't it...

Thank you for sharing so many of your thoughts.. I do appreciate it..

SirArfy 52M
3 posts
9/16/2021 3:41 pm

ur on lots of sites spilling the same bs!


pac369 replies on 9/16/2021 8:14 pm:
I only use alt..
If my blogs are on other sites that's on alt...And apparently my profile is on their sister sites, like most bloggers here,through no choice of my own..

If you think my blog is bs don't read it or comment on it... There's plenty of others to choose from..

tahimikbayani 53M
8008 posts
9/16/2021 6:12 pm

I love the way you keep it real.


pac369 replies on 9/16/2021 8:15 pm:
Thank you tkb...

I certainly appreciate that comment...

jenny14 75T  
90361 posts
9/16/2021 10:11 pm

pac

Well said! And, Yes, loneliness is NOT a reason for any type of relationship !


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


pac369 replies on 9/17/2021 6:42 am:
How right you are Jenny..
A mistake I have made to many times...

Thanks for your thoughts..

davinacambs 61T  
847 posts
9/17/2021 2:16 am

You missed out something vital in your Impresses list .......

That you know when a 3-wood is useless and you need a 7-iron

Sorry ........ couldn't resist that one.

Davina-Jane xx


pac369 replies on 9/17/2021 6:44 am:
No worries davina..
I actually loved it

Thanks..

wantsubbitch 64M

9/17/2021 5:27 am

wow pac , just love this post of yours, it is so dam true in both ways i have had several women text me and in a matter of a few hrs tell me how they love me and want to be my sub toy after like 4, 5 hrs of text and not once meeting getting to know me or anything about me , what you say is so on the spot. by the way love your photo your a gorgeous women, and hope to read more from u ,as you post have a great day and may life bring you all you hope for 1209648


pac369 replies on 9/17/2021 6:47 am:
Really glad you enjoyed the post and could relate to it want... It's amazing how one person calling this post "bs" could put a damper on it.. So your positive input is appreciated..

Thank you very much...

ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
9/18/2021 1:34 am

I love your post, pac, says so much and speaks for many of us I am sure... for some reason, many would think that being alone, having no relationship, and/or getting older makes us kind of desperate or too needy and just willing to and for anything, which only proves the lack of real interest and basic respect. And you look lovely in this picture, pac


pac369 replies on 9/18/2021 6:56 am:
Ahhhh... I could not agree more ex... I am not desperate because I am older... It has made me smarter and less tolerant of bullshit...

So glad you can relate to the post and appreciate what is said in it..

Thank you so much for your kind comments and compliment on my pic!

ridermantel 68M

7/5/2022 3:30 pm

pac, Great post.


ridermantel 68M

7/5/2022 3:32 pm

    Quoting SirArfy:
    ur on lots of sites spilling the same bs!
I don't get what you are saying.



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