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pac369 64F  
10504 posts
9/22/2021 9:20 am

Last Read:
9/23/2021 8:50 am

Time wasters...

Why does this continually happen on alt??

Here's a example from yesterday...
A Dom sending me a message because pac is such a true sports fan. And he appreciates that even though he was a Bears fan. Here's' what he forgot about... The last message he sent me asked "if pac put a golf ball in my pussy when she played golf"? He didn't deserve a response; but pac reminded him what he previously said to her... Do you think he even said he didn't mean it, or opps sorry... Fuck no, he didn't...

This is the mindset from what, 80% to 90% of so called Dom's on alt these days... The sense of entitlement, because they say they are a Dom. Nothing too back their shit up. When you question them the defenses come out or they disappear...

Nothing in pac's profile or blog says she wants too casually fuck any Dom who happens too be in Az or the Tucson area... Far from it... But yet all she gets is those who want to waste her time. Act like she has nothing better too do than chat endlessly with someone who is 2,000 - 7,000 miles away from her, in the states and in other countries...

Just fucking stop it... It's not fair too make pac feel like she's doing something wrong when she cuts off conversations immediately... Because her time means something... And it's on you when you don't respect that... Act immature and call pac all sorts of names... Because "sticks and stones will break my bones, but WORDS will never hurt me"...

pac will not endure any more bull shit... So.. don't get all butt hurt when she doesn't want to talk with you...


~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12700 posts
9/22/2021 9:26 am



~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
9/22/2021 9:53 am

subs have a deep seated need to 'trust' a potential Dom... Dom's should start off by showing their trustworthiness. Be polite, respectful.. a true Dom is always a gentleman.


pac369 replies on 9/22/2021 10:03 am:
Now who's preaching Twisted!
But you are right...

Thanks for your comments..

Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
9/22/2021 9:54 am

Just fucking block them Pac... They might even take the hint of you do that...


pac369 replies on 9/22/2021 10:06 am:
Hey WT...

How have you been??
I know what your saying.. But it's hard to block almost everyone... Just don't want to go there..
Thanks for saying hello..

manni_pr 52T
2609 posts
9/22/2021 10:12 am

I totally understand you. When I broadcast my cam, I love being flirty and chat with my friends. But I'm usually neutral, avoing being a dominat or submissive; I'm just there to hangout and it's the demeanor I project. So it's really unerving when someone orders me to flash them, or undress or my favorite (I'm sarcastic... I actually hate it): when a sub wants to force me to watch his cam and cannot understand that if I'm chatting with friends and offering everyone (I always aim to respond to all comments and questions... up to the point the person gets bossy or rude) equal attention after showing their interest and courtesy to chat with me, they cannot expect to leave them all hanging because they want some one to help them get off. Oh, you're right, then there are those who automatically auto denominated themselves my Dom or my subs without ever having previous contact with me. I feel your annoyance. I ignore them which seems to fluster most of them. Fair enough I think


pac369 replies on 9/22/2021 10:55 am:
While I don't cam there seems to be many similarities about communications manni..

Your frustrations with ego's and assumptions is noted and appreciated..
Thanks for sharing your experiences!

Jackh1101 66M

9/22/2021 11:12 am

Well written. Very logical and a shame more supposed does don't have more common sense


pac369 replies on 9/22/2021 11:18 am:
Thank you Jack..
I appreciate that..

IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1547 posts
9/22/2021 11:45 am

aw, now my butt is really hurting


pac369 replies on 9/22/2021 5:33 pm:
You know I am not talking about you Iso!

MissHairbrush 51T

9/22/2021 11:47 am

I appreciate it is far, far worse for women on here - as everywhere - but I'm afraid I often come across exactly the same entitled attitude from so called 'dommes'.

Just delete and block. We have all become disposable. Don't take it to heart.


pac369 replies on 9/22/2021 5:35 pm:
Thanks for your kind words Miss...

I do appreciate them... Because venting is a wonderful thing..

Dave54321 61M
2718 posts
9/22/2021 3:29 pm

I'm sure that most of the so called Doms on here are just
saying that to get what they want. If they are thousands of
miles away, chances are they're just rod polishers.

I don't think you should feel guilty about blocking someone
who is rude to you. If they can't talk properly to you they are
not worthy of your time.


pac369 replies on 9/22/2021 5:44 pm:
Yeah... I agree Dave.. But I block some, and all they do is create another profile.. So now I wait a bit unless they are totally obnoxious...

But you are certainly right about the "so called Doms"... Just wish they would get laid and go somewhere else..

Thanks for sharing..

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
9/22/2021 11:22 pm

pac

I love the picture - your feet in the foreground really add interest

I am quite speechless at the thought of a golf ball in yours or anyone else's
pussy!

I feel so sorry for you being approached by these morons!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


pac369 replies on 9/23/2021 7:29 am:
Cool Jenny.. Glad you like the different pic..

It is something about the golf ball in the pussy isn't it?? A first message saying that is unbelievable...
It's all good though... These assholes make me appreciate the decent Dom's here..

Have a good evening...

likesmatures 55M
4840 posts
9/23/2021 4:19 am

Its a shame when a man cant have a conversation with a real sports fan without slipping in a sexual referrence..

Insert cringe..in..3..2..1


pac369 replies on 9/23/2021 7:35 am:
He didn't slip in a sexual reference with that message likes. It was the message before, he realized I was a "true sports fan"... That's what makes it so bad...

How he would treat me like a stupid twat who should have a golf ball in her pussy.. Because, seriously... How could I be a real golfer??

Just another ignorant player among the sea of them...
Thanks for your nice comment...

wantsubbitch 64M

9/23/2021 5:17 am

wow pac i really love what you wrote and say.. it is so so true, as for me am a dom one looking for my sub , but like u i get so many that are thousands miles from me , like they would ever come that far, or would i go there. and most do not read a person profile i get so many dom women saying they want me to be there sub when am not at all sub never will be . and sub women and other types still need to be able to trust there master and be loved, ok enough of me going on. best of luck to you in your life


pac369 replies on 9/23/2021 7:52 am:
Thanks want... It is beyond frustrating when you continually feel like your just spinning your wheels... But it's part of the game unfortunately...

All we can do is keep the faith...
Good luck to you also...


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