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pac369 64F  
10494 posts
12/7/2021 9:58 am

Last Read:
12/13/2021 7:34 pm

Booster...


See below...

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12701 posts
12/7/2021 10:06 am

I have my appointment this afternoon for my booster and flu shot...
Don't turn your responses into a political shit show...
If you disagree fine, be respectful about it...

Here's my question though...

Would you put a "hard limit" on someone who's been vaccinated?? Even put in your profile "no jabbing allowed"...
Totally discount that person due to a shot, even if there was a chance of a great connection and future??
This has bugged me for a while now...
And I find it hard to believe a Dom would just cast me aside
because I have a shot!

Just saying...


~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


ridermantel 68M

12/7/2021 10:12 am

I am having second thoughts on the booster.


pac369 replies on 12/7/2021 10:16 am:
Which is your right rider...

In my mind though it's like another flu shot...
That I don't think twice about getting every year...

Good luck which ever way you decide!

Suzy_Que 53T
1245 posts
12/7/2021 10:23 am

I don't see how your health decision should have any impact on your Dom. I could understand the opposite situation, if he only wanted a vaccinated sub because he believes the shots could help to protect both of you, but requiring that you put your own health at risk seems ridiculous.

Better to find out now how he sees things rather than after you have given yourself to him.


pac369 replies on 12/7/2021 4:01 pm:
Yeah.. I agree Suzy..

This is not someone I am involved with.. But it is from a actual profile in the Phoenix metro area... It has been on my mind a couple of weeks now...

And the more I thought about it the more upset I got... How arrogant of him to require that of a sub, to purposely disregard her health. And maybe that's why he's still looking to? ... Just my two cents..

IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1550 posts
12/7/2021 10:29 am

I got my booster and flu shot at the same time about a month ago. Make sure they use separate arms. But as to your question, I would be just the opposite. If you are anti-vax, I am not interested. You are just too stupid for my taste.


pac369 replies on 12/7/2021 10:49 am:
Thanks for the arm info Iso!
I will make sure I use separate arms...

It's nice to know Dom's feel the way you do... Because honestly, I am having a hard time with any Dom or man for that instance, who would insist I wasn't vaccinated...

wantingnoregrets 64M  
805 posts
12/7/2021 10:34 am

    Quoting pac369:
    I have my appointment this afternoon for my booster and flu shot...
    Don't turn your responses into a political shit show...
    If you disagree fine, be respectful about it...

    Here's my question though...

    Would you put a "hard limit" on someone who's been vaccinated?? Even put in your profile "no jabbing allowed"...
    Totally discount that person due to a shot, even if there was a chance of a great connection and future??
    This has bugged me for a while now...
    And I find it hard to believe a Dom would just cast me aside
    because I have a shot!

    Just saying...

For me I would be more likely to pass on someone that has not had shots just because of my own health {copd} not as a statement about their choice. On that issue I believe shots maybe the only way to beat thing just like polio, Chicken pox, Measles etc.

Hope I do not sound political.


pac369 replies on 12/7/2021 10:53 am:
You sound just fine regrets!
My Dad has COPD and doesn't even want my brother to visit him for Christmas... So, I appreciate your concerns...

And I agree about the shots... We have a good chance of being here again next year to!

rope_n_cuffs 78M  
949 posts
12/7/2021 10:36 am

I'm triple-jabbed and flu-proof. You won't find me arguing with you, Pac! Do not personally know any anti-vaxers, and definitely want anyone I come into intimate contact with to be double or preferably triple-jabbed. It's a numbers game, and i know how the odds are stacked.


pac369 replies on 12/7/2021 10:56 am:
Good for you rope!

I am ready for the additional shot, and my flu shot... Nex t will be shingles since I had that nasty shit once..

Like you my whole family is vaccinated now, and I am not around un-vaccinated people.. And back to wearing a mask in public all the time!

justanoldhippie 63M
14 posts
12/7/2021 10:53 am

I'm a nurse... Have lost faith in the CDC and WHO... So I read the university sites. Like Johns Hopkins and Stanford a lot...
I got the three jabs of moderna, right on time and of course my flu shot.

I don't go into any close up situation with the unvaxed... Too risky at any age.

I do home health and so far 7 of my patients have had covid... They are vaccinated, but none got the booster.... just saying...


pac369 replies on 12/7/2021 11:04 am:
Thanks for sharing that...

Seems like that booster might just give you that extra protection? Hopefully, anyway...Masks and social distancing just don't do enough...

Regardless, the shots seem like our only chance in the long run... The same way so many other diseases are kept in check, and what we took as children if we wanted to go to school...

Thanks again...

jenny14 75T  
90491 posts
12/7/2021 10:58 am

pac

I am due for my booster soon and will definitely have it!

I worry about people who are NOT vaccinated !


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


pac369 replies on 12/7/2021 4:03 pm:
So glad to hear that Jenny!

I agree... And thanks for sharing...

grywolf2 73M
3152 posts
12/7/2021 11:14 am

Pac,

I've gotten the booster and I always get the flu shot. There's a lot about medicine I don't understand but vaccines just make sense. Jumpstarting your immune system and aiming it at a virus invader is just elegant science.

Like IsoOnlineSub7 If you are anti-vax, I have zero interest. I don't know about stupidity, but you surely need a prescription correction on your worldview lens.


pac369 replies on 12/7/2021 11:44 am:
Thanks gry...

Like you I don't understand the vaccines either... But hundreds of millions of people not getting sick is good enough science for me!

rope_n_cuffs 78M  
949 posts
12/7/2021 11:35 am

I am ahead of you on the shingles vaccination, Pac....


pac369 replies on 12/7/2021 11:44 am:
Good for you rope!

IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1550 posts
12/7/2021 11:37 am

Pac said: "... I am having a hard time with any Dom or man for that instance, who would insist I wasn't vaccinated..."

My advice, as if you needed it, would be to tell them go fuck yourself. I can pretty much guarantee that that same dom would not be for the government telling people what they can do with their bodies yet he presumes to be able to tell you what to do with your. Morons.


pac369 replies on 12/7/2021 11:46 am:
Thanks Iso!

I really do appreciate your concern for my welfare!!

DancingDom 74M
22623 posts
12/7/2021 12:52 pm

Everyone has the right to get vaxxed or not. But I have had all three shots plus the flu shot. I would not get involved with anyone who chooses not to get the shots.

I have know people who were vaxed who were exposed to and had covid in their system. None had to be hospitalized. On the other hand, I know pee and have been to places were anti vax folks have been. One in particular was always very vocal about not getting the shots. He died and his co-worker has been in the hospital 5 weeks now. One nurse I know, who works at the local hospital, as they are now shipping patients to other places becasue they are full with Covid patients. None of which got the vaccines. I will go with the science, the odds the other way are not good.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


pac369 replies on 12/7/2021 3:47 pm:
Ok DD...

I appreciate what your saying about the shots...
Like you I believe in the science... And will take my chances with the shots..

Wasn't even able to get my flu shot today as the pharmacy is out.. So... will start calling around tomorrow...

Thanks for your story..

Sydneysyder2021 51M

12/7/2021 1:26 pm

Im with most here. I would be more against people who choose not to get vaccinated.

Yes it is their choice, but it is my choice to do what i need to to protect me and my family.


pac369 replies on 12/7/2021 3:49 pm:
Thanks for sharing Sydney...

I agree with all your comments..

InderioMinx 54F  
19868 posts
12/7/2021 2:48 pm

I wouldn't put a hard limit on someone getting their shots. IMO, that is just dumb. Each person has to make the decision for themselves based on their history, health, etc... Like most here, I would be concerned more with people who didn't get them, at least the first shots, but at least I am open-minded about their why, if they don't. However, that may not make me feel comfy about being around them.

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


pac369 replies on 12/7/2021 3:55 pm:
I do feel what you are saying Inderio...

While I would want to also stay open about anyone's decision... I have to worry about myself, my family, and everyone else I interact with...

And being around un-vaccinated people would not be comfortable for me..

Thanks for sharing your thoughts..

fastmover1000 61M  
227 posts
12/7/2021 5:46 pm

Having a shot would be one of my prerequisites.... Required...


pac369 replies on 12/7/2021 7:48 pm:
Makes sense to me fast...

Thanks for sharing..

Dave54321 62M
2727 posts
12/7/2021 5:52 pm

I had my booster shot last Monday.
I previously had two shots of Astra Zen.
Boosted with Moderna.
When they gave me the booster I was tempted to ask them if they wanted
to wave the wand over the injection site, to check it was transmitting. You know
like they do when they chip your dog, but decided against it, in case they were
offended/didn't realise I was joking.

As others have said, my choice would be to avoid those who haven't had the
shots. I would see your having had the shots as a plus point, not a reason to
rule you out.


pac369 replies on 12/7/2021 7:53 pm:
Good for you Dave...
I think that would have been hilarious to ask if shot
injection site was transmitting! Probably best that you didn't
though...

Glad to hear you also agree with the shots!

Vikingargo 68M
689 posts
12/7/2021 10:52 pm

Vaccinations, boosters, sugar cubes with serum on them (for those old enough to remember the distribution of the polio vaccine)

What's done is done. Get on with the life to come.


pac369 replies on 12/8/2021 6:45 am:
Ok Viking...

I am doing that..

Will35 61M
398 posts
12/7/2021 11:42 pm

I have also been triple jabbed and got my flu shot as well but not the same day as my booster - my second COVID shot wasn't long enough before they started giving flu shots. But my mother got her booster and flu shot at the same time, in different arms.

For me as well, the COVID shots are just like flu shots and other routine vaccines.

And I always thought that part of a Dom's or Master's or Mistress's responsibility was to help their subs/slaves/etc. be safe, including mental as well as physical safety. And that last includes getting routine vaccinations, check ups, etc.

Personally, I have minor lung issues so it's even more important to me, as at least one other reply mentioned.


pac369 replies on 12/8/2021 6:49 am:
Well Will... I agree..

I also think it's a Dom's responsibility to care for his sub in all ways. Since I don't have a Dom.. I need to keep myself in my best possible health for a future Dom...

Preexisting health conditions made covid that much scarier for sure...

rosaenaluin 65F
11092 posts
12/8/2021 1:07 am

It is like, being a political lefty. and thus not really interested in getting along with a political righty....
His and my ideas about the world, politics, ethics would be soo far apart....
We would not match.

Or, finding a middle road would be a big thing.....

You do you.


pac369 replies on 12/8/2021 6:52 am:
Thanks rosa...

And I agree.. My last Dom became a Trump fanatic after not voting for 40 years... It was a huge factor in our split, before he died...

Not finding a middle road is just a disaster from my experience...

Hguy69dot4u 65M
268 posts
12/8/2021 6:37 am

    Quoting pac369:
    I have my appointment this afternoon for my booster and flu shot...
    Don't turn your responses into a political shit show...
    If you disagree fine, be respectful about it...

    Here's my question though...

    Would you put a "hard limit" on someone who's been vaccinated?? Even put in your profile "no jabbing allowed"...
    Totally discount that person due to a shot, even if there was a chance of a great connection and future??
    This has bugged me for a while now...
    And I find it hard to believe a Dom would just cast me aside
    because I have a shot!

    Just saying...

I have not read any one's responses yet . I whant to say I am pro choice . Your body your choice. I would not reject some one over them having chosen to take one. I may have consurns over some one not having one . But still would. Be open and talk over there reason for their choices.
Open communication I know novel concept but I believe it is key to all happiness .
MR Mike


pac369 replies on 12/8/2021 6:59 am:
Ok Mike...

I appreciate being open about the vaccine and a person's reason for getting, or not getting the shot...

But I see my 82-year-old Mother every day, who lost part of her lung years ago to the Hong Kong Flu... So... someone who is not vaccinated not only endangers me, but my mother to...

Just wish more people thought of it that way!

Hguy69dot4u 65M
268 posts
12/8/2021 6:58 am

My story yesxi chose to get vaccine , I chose j & j for me ,had people tell me it was the wrong choice but it was the one I made after looking at facts not. Just online bs. I drove uber doing as careful as possible , one of my grand children got it. Brought it home . After I was fully vaccinated. And time had passed several months. Yes I got it but , no hospital . It sucked hit my week spots hard kiddies. Lungs. Legs. Drained my energy. But I lived . Working to get back enegry . From Oct 2021 toll now just getting enegery back. But no hospital. And no death. I will get booster too. Fir me it is smart. My choice. That being said I fo not feel forcing people to get them is the way. All this being said I have not gotten one stimulus check not a cent . The urs has my shit locked in limbo. And no energy to fight . Them.


pac369 replies on 12/8/2021 7:06 am:
Ok...

I think I got covid in late July... And it kicked my ass. But no hospital for me either... Which is just like when you get a flu shot. There is no guarantee you won't get the flu... It just isn't as severe..

Vaccine mandates are controversial no doubt... But without serious changes; this pandemic is not going anywhere!

And I am really tired of living with it myself...

rosaenaluin 65F
11092 posts
12/10/2021 9:09 am

pac
Yes, finding a middle road, could be working..

If it is about, for me, fundamental things, like the right of any woman, girl, to have an abortion, WIThout men minding YOUR busniss!
It could become tough.
Or.... Just accepting those differences?
If you can?


pac369 replies on 12/10/2021 1:55 pm:
For sure rosa...

That middle road is becoming harder to find in this day and age though...

JohnnyLightning 65M  
9729 posts
12/13/2021 4:04 pm

I need to get my booster very soon. The answer your question that would depend on her Social Circles.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


pac369 replies on 12/13/2021 7:29 pm:
Mmmmmm...

Ok Johnny... I appreciate that..


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