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I guess it needs to be said... pac is so much more than her blog! If you choose t o get off on the pics and her words, by all means, go for it! If you choose t o DM and IM her only t o talk about YOUR kink and sex, see the first option. If you choose t o know more read on... This is a hard blog t o write. pac is one day past her year anniversary of blogging. And doing some reflections of all the changes she has made for herself and the blog these last twelve months... Only a few have followed me since the beginning of my blog. Thank you drmgirl, Jenny, and DancingDom for your continued support. If anyone else was around for my first blogs and pac missed you. Feel free t o give her shit! At first my blog had a lot of anger and frustration surrounding the posts. So many players fucking with me. pac did a lot of venting at first. Calling out players and things she found offensive. Inadvertentely offending some along the way. Learning how t o be more objective, not so close minded. Seeing value in whatever blogs said, whether she agreed or not. Choosing not t o discuss politics. Combined, has been a huge learning experience... Males and Dominate bloggers/commenters can be quite a fickle bunch though. At least towards pac they are. Where is it assumed because you post sexual pictures on a BDSM site, that you're going t o be the latest hookup? pac cannot count how many Dom's have just disappeared from her blog this past year. Usually when the sex talk doesn't get specific enough towards them. Does this happen with other subs and their blogs? Doesn't seem like it. Though pac could certainly be mistaken about that... As she was just ghosted again a few days ago. She wonders about the correlation t o what she posts and what Dom's think of her? Through trial-and-error pac has been finding out what kind of blogs-initiated views, comments, and kept in line with her thoughts. Naturally the sexual ones did better. So... of course pac went more in that direction. Golf, current events, and football will always be included. As are some of my personal endeavors... pac continues with her blogging for several reasons. Communicating with like-minded individuals, keeping herself visible for potential Dom's, just love posting about unique sexual and erotic photos, and the interactions with responders... Just would hope any potential Dom could see that pac is not her blog. Her alter ego, fantasy loving, gemini twin is not always on the same wavelength. As the real life pac. If you interact with her, please, try and keep the twins separated...  ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~ |
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Just saying....  ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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Well, as one who only recently began to visit this blog (and a few others), I have enjoyed learning about what you find sexy and interesting, to share observations and stories about those things and to chat with someone who understands the game of football. I have also enjoyed making you laugh with my hopeless jokes. Don't let the negative people bother you; life is too short.
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I know I enjoy reading your blog even though I know nothing about golf even though Bay Hill is only about 60 minutes from me  Adapting to the audience can be hard at times but it's really not about them, it's about you.
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I follow your blog posts almost daily, whether they be pics, which are great to read the description and commentary by you, or the football, to which, as Canadian, I seem a bit more educated, or your golf pics. Took up golf a few years back so always enjoy reading and seeing your game. Keep it up, I am sure there are many, like me, that read your blog daily but haven’t figured out the follow button yet, lol. Cheers. 💕
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Who is that beautiful girl in that picture? Pac?  love that pic and your ink. I did not know you had so much. I have ZERO, nada. I hate needles, well when they are used on me anyway. I love your blogs pac, and you golf adventures (I play with my boys from time to time). I try to not mix up the pac blog sexual proclivities with the real pac interests. I know there is a lot of overlap, but there are two different realities really. Sorry I have not been watching your blogs from the beginning but even though I have been on alt since the early beginning days, I never was into or even really aware of the blog community till this last year. I hope you continue, I wish you all the best, and just so you know, I am a nasty fucker, but I ain't insane, well yet anyway. Keep on keeping on. You do you. I love it.
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"pac is so much more than her blog!" Yes indeed, I would imagine we all are & people should understand that, at least you would think so. As for the Dom's who chat & then disappear. Are they really Dom's? Are they really looking for a kink relationship. Or is it just about beating the meat & if they intend to meet at all, are they just looking for a quick hook up? I suspect many on here are just looking for erotic stimulation to go with their polishing sessions, or possible a quick bonking session if they can get it. I don't know if I read your first blog posting, I've read most of them, even most of the football one's & I don't really understand those! More power to you pac. Hope you find someone genuine.
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Pac, I make no excuses for those that ghost, I find it particularly weak of them, and should never be seen as a reflection upon yourself. However, having never looked at your blog other than daily postings, today I did take a quick visit as a reaction to this post, and I would like to make a suggestion. Since most intelligent people on alt have worked out that there is very little value in a paid membership for them, viewing your profile is not possible. May I suggest that you put a copy of all relevant information on your profile, as a posting on your blog, pinned in position 2 behind your contract blog. This will give all members the opportunity to learn more about you, and hopefully will head off many similar ghosting incidents. Good luck.
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Ghosting, I have found that many emails and comments never see the light of day on this and other sites. I never use the "drafts" on my emails, I write them on 'word" then copy and paste so I have a good copy. Suddenly I found over a hundred emails in my drafts that never sent, why? No reason I can tell but all were to the same 3 people. When I quarried them they were puzzled as to why I sometimes replied and sometimes acted like I hadn't received their email. So, now I check my spam folder, my deleted, and my drafts daily.
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Duh maybe you need to just nut up to some pan unicorn kc stud.. But fuck that would be fucked up..like the kid at the quickie mart that combines every last slurpie ingredient.. And calls it a suicide. Or maybe arron rodgers can just slid over to the steelers
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I think you’re SAF Pac very interesting person w similar interests & kinks I’d luv to get to know you better unfortunately I’m unable only being a standard member l can’t view your full profile or mesg you & im chat here is sketchy but l do enjoy your blogs FYI...l don’t comment or follow very many blogs!
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Pac Happy Anniversary I have enjoyed your blog and know there is more to you than just your blog although a lot does come though We keep certain aspects of ourselves private even with the "anonymity" of a blog hereI hope you find your dom and keep blogging A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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Congratulations on your anniversary, Pac. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Happy Anniversary Have not been following blogs for long, but enjoy yours and the peek into world you share. I like the person have seen so far, but we all probably show only good side here. I am guilty of this as if a negative comment can't be constructive try to keep to self. This is your blog, do it your way, kinks, fantasies, dreams,wants, desires, sports, or anything else you wish to discuss.
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i enjoy your blogs as all the above. i also recognize there is usually much more to a person than what's in a blog. but its great to have a forum to communicate with like minded people. Don't let anyone stop you from writing what you want and how you want to present it. Happy anniversary!!
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Happy anniversary, Pac. You can never please everyone, so keep doing your way for thoes who appreciate it, and firstly for yourself and your pleasure. Those who wants to see beyond, will see, others wont no matter what you do or say 😊
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Congrats! pac, I like reading your blog, although i dont understand one bit about the football and or golf. But, they are all parts of you, and that is why i like them. As for the ghosting and other nastys, just ignore them. I too, had a lot of negative reactions, when i did not wanted to jump into the kinky sexy talk, fine by me! It is on them, they stand out as wankers, not mé. I had some of those experiences too... It just does not bother me, anymore.... It is on them, not me. They must have a totall other agenda, then i have.... so,we would never have been a match, anyway, water under the bridge. I like most of you sexy, kinky pictures, although i sometimes just dont react, but enjoy them. Keep doing, what makes you feel good, about yourself and blog on! 
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Everyone has a right to come and go from a blog, from this site, but they should know that it doesn't affect the purpose or content of your blog. And that is just how it is...so keep blogging how you want to, you're doing just fine.
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I enjoy your blogs xx
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Pac....you are always a pleasure to communicate with and you are very interesting, open and fun. I love the blogs and really enjoy knowing you.
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Here the words loud and clear. Looking good, by the way. D-J xxx
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