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pac369 64F  
10511 posts
4/23/2022 3:55 pm

Last Read:
7/19/2022 12:04 am

pac's idea of loyalty...

As you look at the picture...
It's easy t o think the female wolf...
Is hiding under the males head...
She's not though...
She's there t o assist, neutralize, or protect
him from the threat...
She's all in!!
And if that's not a similar mindset in your
D/s relationship...
Your just going through the motions...
Even in the face of conflict or fear...
Your Dom or sub continually needs t o
see that loyalty from you...
Where there's not a shred of doubt about
your feelings...
A real life D/s relationship is challenging, chaotic, ever changing...
The intensity rarely if ever matched in the vanilla world...
While drama is not something anyone seeks...
Sometimes it can't be helped...
If you don't get it...
pac's not surprised...
That type of loyalty from a sub...
Scares the fuck out of most of you!
As responsibilities and real life is involved...
Like the saying goes "if you can't stand the heat,
stay out of the kitchen"...
But stop trying t o be or act like a Dom...
When all you want is a "hook up" or "fun time"!



~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12699 posts
4/23/2022 3:57 pm

Are you all in ??

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


drmgirl622 68F  
26058 posts
4/23/2022 4:02 pm

Loyalty is the key. That noun is such an important word in our lifestyle.

ps.....i love the new profile pic


pac369 replies on 4/23/2022 4:07 pm:
It truly is drmgirl!
Thank you so much...

rondiri 65M
11155 posts
4/23/2022 4:09 pm

Very well put, pac. I hope I can find someone like that. It isn't easy, as you well know.


pac369 replies on 4/23/2022 4:14 pm:
Thank you Ron!
A endless struggle for sure...
But I will never give up finding
the Dom for me!

casio26 63M
2552 posts
4/23/2022 4:31 pm

I like your new profile pic, Pac.
That's an interesting piont of view
Dave


pac369 replies on 4/23/2022 4:40 pm:
Thank you Dave!

ridermantel 68M

4/23/2022 7:18 pm

Queen and Country!


pac369 replies on 4/24/2022 10:51 am:
Ok rider!

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4117 posts
4/23/2022 7:32 pm

very true Pac & right on point...what l seek in a sub honesty loyalty dedication devotion has my back & kinky!


pac369 replies on 4/24/2022 10:52 am:
I hear that bdsm!

JohnnyLightning 65M  
9644 posts
4/23/2022 9:41 pm

A punctured juggler can ruin your entire day.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


pac369 replies on 4/24/2022 10:52 am:
No shit Johnny!

jenny14 75T  
90304 posts
4/23/2022 9:45 pm

pac

This is a very interesting piece ( about wolves)

I agree totally with what you say and would extend the thought to ANY relationship!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


pac369 replies on 4/24/2022 10:53 am:
While I agree Jenny!
My vanilla relationships were
never like this...
Not mine anyway...

Squirt4DDY 40M

4/23/2022 11:48 pm

Those wolves are so beautiful. I like the comparison you made but am stuck on the wolves


pac369 replies on 4/24/2022 10:54 am:
The wolves are beautiful S!
No worries what your thoughts are...

ExNameForUse 53F
5739 posts
4/24/2022 2:03 am

Loyalty is everything, Pac. Even more when the times are tough, as yes... life can sometimes be tough, circumstances not the happiest you would wish for. It is about integrity, being loyal, at all times. Either you are, or you are not. I see nothing in between.


pac369 replies on 4/24/2022 10:58 am:
Especially when the times are tough Ex!
In my mind, loyalty, separates the Dom's
from the players...
And totally agree "that you are, or you are not" loyal!

ridermantel 68M

7/17/2022 5:02 pm

But now the picture is gone!


pac369 replies on 7/18/2022 1:54 pm:
Seems fine to me….

ridermantel 68M

7/18/2022 11:29 pm

It has returned.



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