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Blogs > HerJourney21 > Pieces of Me

HerJourney21 58F
4214 posts
5/5/2021 6:25 am
A gene ?


Quite often I've thought about what has brought me to this lifestyle, this craving. I believe a lot of how we evolve in life has a lot to do with environmental or social influences. For the life of me I don't have a clue where my proclivity towards service came from. Could it have been that I was the oldest of four, possible, but I can't say that's the only reason. I do know that as a I was so attracted to those women in power, be it a teacher, a high school coach, and even my Mother's friends. I would just fawn over them hoping I could get just a little attention.

Do you think it's environmental/societal or maybe we just have that kinky gene.

HerJourney21 58F

5/5/2021 6:30 am

 Was it gene therapy ?


gor1111 70M

5/5/2021 6:31 am

 Im going with kinky gene so much more fun with kink in it xxx


sletje1999 24F
134 posts
5/5/2021 6:49 am

 I'm personally leaning towards the social/environment theory. Genes define the potential, our social environment, experiences and possibly even generational influences define how it gets shaped.
My mom was by no means a submissive, but she shaped some of what is inside me, with her believes, fears and hurts for sure. And she would be sad and maybe even horrified to learn the details about it.


jenny14 75T  
90361 posts
5/5/2021 1:40 pm

 H

From my understanding, it is probably a combination of genes and nurture...
A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


Gowron 69M
3112 posts
5/6/2021 5:32 am

 I was into bondage as far back as 8 and I don't know why.
I could trace it to books I read, though they weren't meant to be erotic.
But I guess they just fueled what was already there.


obedient40 60M
19 posts
5/6/2021 2:28 pm

 Maybe it goes further back than your parents. It could skip a generation. You do not know the desires or whims of your ancestors. One of them could have harboured the whims and desires you have now. Your environment may not have helped you but the seed may have been planted long before you were born. 1201405. Why am I like this? Maybe you should ask Great Granma/pa.



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