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HerJourney21 58F
4214 posts
5/27/2021 7:35 am
What do you need ?



I've read so many do's and don'ts about lifestyle relationships and I had add my take on a critical item. During one discussion with Mistress she asked "pet, is something else you need from me ?". I was caught a little off guard by the question and definitely pleasantly surprised. With our relationship being fairly new and my pleasure/pain exploration just beginning I just didn't know how respond. All I could tell her was "no Ma'am". The point of all this is that every sub has needs and wants and when you're fortunate enough have a Dominant that is so intuitive don't ever miss that opportunity let your voice be heard.

HerJourney21 58F

5/27/2021 7:36 am

Tell Her what you want


prpackaged 80M  
740 posts
5/27/2021 8:11 am

There is something for total agreement. Shows an intelligent domme enquiring about the wellbeing of her sub. That makes for a good start to a lasting relationship.

The blackest lie is a partial truth that leads you to the wrong conclusion.


HerJourney21 replies on 5/27/2021 8:23 am:
thank you

SubWantedN92277 63M
15 posts
5/27/2021 9:56 am

That is why we have a long talk and set up ground rules
I do ask for open and honesty
We can and will talk about anything at anytime


HerJourney21 replies on 5/27/2021 10:32 am:
thank you for your comments

SeekingU1954 70M
33 posts
5/27/2021 11:01 am

Well put


mouth5101 73M
38 posts
5/27/2021 12:15 pm

Gently but firmly is the best.


HerJourney21 replies on 5/27/2021 12:34 pm:
yes

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
5/27/2021 11:25 pm

H

Conversation is essential, as you say....


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


HerJourney21 replies on 5/28/2021 4:41 am:
yes, it is, Jenny


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