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HerJourney21 58F
4214 posts
12/1/2021 7:29 am
Training

In my opinion, the training in a D/s relationship is ongoing and ever evolving. Sure, a submissive learns what the Dominant wants or needs and does everything in their power commit that memory but it's not a race, it's a marathon. The caring is shown when I'm told that slow and easy sets the pace but then reminded of Mistress' dominance when she tells me that she wants no damage to her property. A task is learned then we move on to another and another. Yes, it's only been a short time in our relationship but somehow, I feel this will be the norm.

I read these exploits of submissives and the hot, steamy sex that ensues. Is this not just kinky sex rather than a true commitment, who knows. What I do know is that the training can be and is just as hot and steamy.



HerJourney21 58F

12/1/2021 7:30 am

Phew, it's getting warm in here!


AlphaDadDom4Real 56M

12/1/2021 7:34 am

Well said training never stops really. People evolve we change incrementally everyday so of course training needs to continue

HOT picture


HerJourney21 replies on 12/1/2021 8:05 am:
thank you, Alpha

debwalton11 44F

12/1/2021 7:46 am

I'll be your huckleberrydebwalton11


HerJourney21 replies on 12/1/2021 8:05 am:
hope you like the post

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
12/1/2021 8:44 am

H

Alt has disappeared the pic

I agree - training and learning are ongoing and never ending and enjoyable

As you say, it is not all hot steamy sex!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


HerJourney21 replies on 12/1/2021 12:59 pm:
pic is back....training is always changing the relationship

brandygirasol 55T
9433 posts
12/1/2021 9:14 am

Far more spice than conventional relationships that's for sure!!!! 😏


HerJourney21 replies on 12/1/2021 1:00 pm:
definitely, Brandy

ridermantel 68M

12/1/2021 9:40 am

Be mindful and learn that there is a right way, a wrong way and the Mistress' way.


HerJourney21 replies on 12/1/2021 1:00 pm:
i don't ever forget it

pac369 64F  
12700 posts
12/1/2021 11:21 am

I agree with everyone else about a particular Dom's or Mistress training...

Wish I could have seen the pic..

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


HerJourney21 replies on 12/1/2021 1:00 pm:
the pic is back

rosaenaluin 65F
11010 posts
12/2/2021 8:53 am

training, like watersports, or latex is a fetish.

Not every one in a D/s or TAT M/s is into training.

Most just have a power dynamic relation, where the s type agreed to do as the D type told her/him....
After they really, really get to know each other, as persons, first.
Got to know the other persons wants and needs, and find their compatibility, on the most important parts of their commitment to each other....

They develop their dynamic, as they get along, grow together into their bond.


HerJourney21 replies on 12/3/2021 9:49 am:
training is most important and something Mistress does well

softrayne 56F
3088 posts
12/5/2021 4:00 pm

That black velvet corset tho......


HerJourney21 replies on 12/6/2021 3:09 pm:
i know, right

RobertBishop 66M  
2145 posts
12/5/2021 4:50 pm

That's Mistress Irony, from Canada.


HerJourney21 replies on 12/6/2021 3:09 pm:
okay

ridermantel 68M

3/12/2022 12:41 am

Training is a dish best served cold.


rydermantel 69M
25394 posts
12/15/2022 11:53 am

Lovely.



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