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sorry you have had this kind of treatment from people in the lifestyle DecadentDelight and Im sure in time you will find a suitable Dom who will want you for who you are all I will say is what I say to most subs is trust your gut feelings about someone as they are usually spot on . good luck with your search PSUK " Its better to burn out than fade away "
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I feel for you delight! Being submissive and on alt is not for the faint of the heart... But I also believe the advice of Piercing Sadist... "Trust your gut".. It will not steer you wrong.. And really horrible about your UK experience... It constantly makes me wonder WTF is wrong with so many Doms?? Hang in there... ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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6/24/2021 8:57 am |
Lots of men pretending to be dominant and they have no real clue what this lifestyle is all about. A real dominant isn't going to be giving you lots of compliments to get your attention. I enjoy giving a woman compliments, but not to attract her attention. Failing is an opportunity to learn what doesn't work. I never quit and I never give up. I will turn my back on a person that's let me down multiple times or walk away from a relationship that's going no where. I've been quite disappointed with the women I've interacted with. They had ample opportunity to change their behavior, but refused. Im sure this all sounds familiar with the men you've interacted with. I've never actively pursued anyone. If a submissive likes what I have to say. I'd rather her let me know I've peaked her curiosity. At that point we can get to know each other without any stress or expectations. There are no obstacles that can't be overcome. I've proven that over and over. I'm usually a good judge of people, but I've been fooled by someone saying what I was wanting to hear. Don't blame yourself for being who and what you are. One thing I would change is your profile picture. When I see a profile and the woman has a dick in her mouth or her legs spread. I'm always thinking. Is that the best you have to offer me?..You can do what you want. I'm not trying to tell you what to do. I want to know about a woman's mind, her personality and who she is inside. I can always see her pussy later. If I don't like who she is inside. Seeing her pussy isn't going to make me interested in her. I need more than her body. Maybe this will mean something to you or maybe it won't. Have a good night and be careful.
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6/24/2021 9:04 am |
I am a Dom, and believe it or not I feel you and I m really sorry about having to go through that. I don’t think it’s necessarily doms abusing their power, it’s people being dicks. It’s so crap when people prove to be so unreliable. It has happened to me twice. The worst one was last Sunday. After an amazing weekend she agreed to be owned, signed the d/s contract and got collared. On Monday we didn’t talk much but I knew she was busy because she started a new job. she send a text that didn’t raise any concern, said she will have more time tomorrow. Then she vanished, didn’t respond to calls, texts emails, pretty sure she changed her number because she’s offline everywhere. It’s not the first time I get ghosted but it’s the first time after a meeting. I was making plans to move near her, I had even find house. The only funny part of the story, the collar was locking and I have the key.
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6/24/2021 12:41 pm |
I am a Dom but I feel you. I am really sorry you had so bad experiences and I m really surprised because I always thought hot women don’t have these issues. And you look and sound amazing so it’s a bit of a shock. I don’t think it’s necessary a Dom problem. It’s just people being dicks and completely unreliable. I met this weekend with a sub that that seemed perfect and what I was looking for. We had an amazing weekend or that’s what I thought and what I understood from her behaviour. Before leaving on Sunday she signed the d\s contract, and got collared. She kept texting during the day , next day she was was working on a new job so she texted at night, but everything looked normal. After that she completely vanished, didn’t reply to texts,emails ,calls and she’s offline in what’s app etc since last time we spoke so I guess she changed number. I have been ghosted ,( a lot) before but never after a meeting We were even making plans and I had found a house to move close to her! So rollercoaster here too, a great weekend but horrible week and a huge disappointment.
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Tal greets a girl smiles an hello, Says would hope you do find what you seek smiles Master ADOMIS4U2
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*smiles, reading her eloquent comments*
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Welcome to the blogs. You write well. Not sure how I missed your blog. Best to you. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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