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Everyday, I see men"s profiles. From quite alot, being a standard member I can read what they want or why they are here. Of late, I have seen something very disturbing, Young men of the age of around their 30"s s stating that they are here, because their wifes do not "understand" them. What the fuck does that even mean??? Why the hell would you marry someone and then realize that it was wrong?. Why are they even getting married in the first place, I mean come on guys, this is not the 18th centuary, we all have sex, before marriage. And in there lies the crux of my question. Sometimes I look around and think "What the fuck?" are we all just going to hell in a basket??
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wouldn't be a smart thing for a sub to get tangled up with those guys either. scorned wives can make things miserable.
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FFS, now to make matters worse, bearing in mind it is as hot as hell here right now, my fucking fan just blew up, one huge bang!, and no fan!!... 
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wouldn't be a smart thing for a sub to get tangled up with those guys either. scorned wives can make things miserable. 
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 Slave rick
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2/17/2022 11:06 am |
Sadly, things change, people change. I went from public sessions and breaking beds to hearing no on my wedding night.
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2/17/2022 12:23 pm |
Im looking for someone that's been down those rough roads like I have. A real person that can swim in the world of bdsm and also function in the vanilla world when it's appropriate. I look for more than a body. I need more than that. No matter how good a woman looks I'd get tired of fucking her if that's all we had. I seek someone with a dynamic mind who doesn't believe in impossible.
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I suspect in reality their wives understand them all too well.
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If they got married too young, they grew in different directions, so if he is unhappy, he should just divorce and find what he wants now. Not many people get it right the first time. Less than 50% in fact,
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2/17/2022 4:07 pm |
I like your philosophical outlook on things.
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2/17/2022 5:30 pm |
Any Submissive Sissy Out here? Message me Im waiting
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Is "she doesn't understand me" short hand for, "she doesn't give me as much sex as I want? Over the years I've worked in a lot of all male groups. From time to time the subject of sex comes up, I've often heard, "are sex; yes that what we did before we were married." Or "sex; yes that what we did before we had children." Some men do feel that they give a woman what she wants, a ring on her finger, or children, & she doesn't have to try any more. Then she switches off the suppy of sex. I am not suggesting that is the reality of the situation. I'm sure the men are as much to blame, in some cases possibly more to blame than the women. But it's what they feel about the situation. I once read a quote, "Women always need to be seduced." The trouble is from a male perspective, we spend time taking a woman out, trying to get her into bed. Then they get married or start living together & they are getting into bed together every night. Form his perspective, "we're in bed together, why not, we may aswell." In the early days that might also work for her, the newness of being married/living together. Then the reality of life sets in. They are both working, he's not helping much, if at all around the house & most of the time, because they are getting into bed every night, he's not making much effort to make it special. She's tired from her job, or the children, plus the house work, she's not making much effort either, plus she's not enjoying the sex much any more. I've also heard if money is tight, bills to be paid, this effects womens sex drive, men can put it out of their mind. Is it any wonder she's not keen on sex. One of the comments about "few people get it right first time." Can't help thinking if men & women had a better understanding about each other that first time, they might have a better chance of making it work. It may work the second or third time, IF they've learnt the lessons experience has taught them.
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In hiding again Kit ???
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9/5/2022 10:10 am |
Labor Day.
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9/9/2022 1:19 am |
I am here because I choose to be here. 
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