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BreakUcompletely 55M
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9/10/2021 8:42 am
Just an observation about people in the lifestyle

Hello everyone,

I was noticing something that seemed odd to me over the years. I have always believed that lifestyle people did not judge each other based on how they live their lifestyle and their kinks, however, I am so very wrong. This was apparent when we went to a local munch with a few friends. It is our first time to this munch and knowing no one there figured it would be a good chance to make friends and hang out with like-minded people, simple right? Oh, boy was I wrong. We have always been a poly family, we don't involve and we try to be very open and honest with people. We had brought a who we owned and had some very intense tattoos and body mods that showed she was owned and of course dressed like a slut, figuring this would be appropriate for a lifestyle munch, that was in a back bar. She was in a sheer white blouse, leather mini, leather jacket, and boots with heels, she also had ridden there on the back of my bike with me, so she looked like a biker chic My wife had some stops so she brought a second with who she had been training and of course, she dressed very slutty. We arrived, there was a greeter at the door, we introduced ourselves went in and the girls went to get our drinks. Pretty normal right? I thought so, Had our drinks and figured we would mingle at the bar, be social and try and make friends. We were given the cold shoulder by just about everyone. Finally, another couple started chatting with us and we mentioned how it seems like no one wanted to chat, we also noticed everyone seemed to be in groups and not intermingling. They explained that everyone had a click and if you did not fit into their click they more or less avoided you. I am new to the munch scene and found this to be kind of odd. I am curious if others had noticed this besides me? I assumed that people would to get to know others and build a network of friends who supported their lifestyle even with them maybe living it differently than themselves. It kind of reminded me of highschool lunchroom stuff.


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