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NurseRatched85 38F
11 posts
9/13/2021 9:35 pm
What is it with this IM


I cannot fathom who designed this system. You cannot click on the IM button, it sends you to a paywall.

But you can enable an Instant Messages slider, but when an IM comes in, you cannot respond.

No clue how that makes sense to anyone.

Tbill1 58M
1795 posts
9/14/2021 8:40 am

Yea, a lot works poorly here but blogs seem to work.

andy


Damiendominant 37M
1 post
9/14/2021 11:21 am

Most only pay for blogs, video, etc but not for the dating aspect. I know I'll be leaving once my sub expires. it's become to hard to find real peeps that want what I want not trying to lead you off the site to somewhere else.


brandygirasol 55T
9435 posts
9/14/2021 1:11 pm

yes IM doesn't seem to work anymore- at least if you are a non paying member like myself. WELCOME TO BLOGLAND


Beachguy000 49M

9/14/2021 3:47 pm

The IM on this site is worthless


PiercingSadistUK 56M  
820 posts
9/15/2021 2:50 pm

maybe if you are willing to add a hangouts or kik so others can chat with you there or set up a private blog within your blog where others can contact you that may help with the IM being crap on this site Nurse

PSUK

" Its better to burn out than fade away "


Greybrow 64M
625 posts
9/16/2021 5:03 am

IM is really bad It has worked maybe 10% of the time for me. Blogs and you can answer some direct msgs. If you get a direct msg that you can read. Check the box to the left of the sender and you can reply. Good luck


Dommestoyzxcv 62M
414 posts
9/22/2021 3:50 pm

Yep afraid you have to pay for everything except a blog page…but it’s not totally private although you can set some access restrictions on it if you can work it out?!? Update your status telling people to look and message you on your blog page!!! Not great but you can contact people to an extent. Have fun, Danny x



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