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manni_pr 52T
455 posts
2/4/2024 11:15 am
Of An Approach to Submission

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jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
2/4/2024 12:41 pm

manni

I love your memes! They are so true!

It is wonderful to discover ourselves as you have done!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


rydermantel 69M
25245 posts
2/4/2024 1:42 pm

manni, I read this twice. I love it. It is excellent. I like your self-analysis, how you got into BDSM, your progression and continuous evolving from Top to bottom yet, not totally. We have our days and each day is a new day with discoveries and realizations. Great post and good read.


Tckg12 69M
2490 posts
2/4/2024 3:05 pm

excellent blog. very true


drmgirl622 68F  
26090 posts
2/5/2024 6:50 am

I can relate to the second meme about inspiration......it hits home!


manni_pr 52T
2609 posts
2/6/2024 3:00 am

    Quoting jenny14:
    manni

    I love your memes! They are so true!

    It is wonderful to discover ourselves as you have done!
It is a very interesting and enlightening journey, Jenny, as you well know.


manni_pr 52T
2609 posts
2/6/2024 3:11 am

    Quoting rydermantel:
    manni, I read this twice. I love it. It is excellent. I like your self-analysis, how you got into BDSM, your progression and continuous evolving from Top to bottom yet, not totally. We have our days and each day is a new day with discoveries and realizations. Great post and good read.
Thank you, Ryder. Your words mean a lot, my friend and blog mentor As each of us go through our respective journeys, we see how we have so many things that we all have in common, yet, so many things that set us apart. Labels are necessary at times, but rarely one ever makes justices in defining each us. Our own acceptance and our compatibility with our loved ones is a better measure.


manni_pr 52T
2609 posts
2/6/2024 3:16 am

    Quoting drmgirl622:
    I can relate to the second meme about inspiration......it hits home!
Absolutely, dreamgrl. It's really the only way I can surrender myself to someone who has earned my trust


rydermantel 69M
25245 posts
2/6/2024 4:16 pm

    Quoting manni_pr:
    Thank you, Ryder. Your words mean a lot, my friend and blog mentor As each of us go through our respective journeys, we see how we have so many things that we all have in common, yet, so many things that set us apart. Labels are necessary at times, but rarely one ever makes justices in defining each us. Our own acceptance and our compatibility with our loved ones is a better measure.
I don't write as much as I used to, but your post really inspired me. You are very intelligent. We continuously evolve and perhaps see a different perspective if only for a moment. I have friends who are either 100 percent to the left or 100 percent to the right. They see no middle ever. If one approaches BDSM in that way they will ultimately fail. I like your logical and heartfelt approach.


manni_pr 52T
2609 posts
2/8/2024 1:22 am

Extreme measures sometimes work on extreme cases, but they don't always fit real life. It's sad, and even more concerning, to see people every increasing day relying on that out of anger, hate and intolerance without the capacity, or even, interest in understanding the other side. And that applies to both sides.
Yeah, I do not log in as often, but it is great to see and read and be greeted every morning. Sometimes that's the only reason I log in. Gives both a sense of community and belonging. You may be writing less, and it's only fair you write when you feel and must, but please, never stop. It's special



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