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pomonagirl909 47F
283 posts
10/16/2022 6:41 pm
Big Vs Little Dog


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pomonagirl909 47F
165 posts
10/16/2022 6:42 pm

Last night at the bar...

i walk in, it's crowded and really noisy. i wasn't expecting so many people on a Wednesday night. i'd come looking for a little peace and quiet before heading home; the unexpected crowd and din of shrill voices makes me almost turn around and leave.

Instead, i figure, awww well, i'm already here. i pull up to one of the few open seats at the corner of the bar, next to two men who are there chatting and having a good time.

Almost immediately, the man immediately to my right says hello and introduces himself. He is very chatty, friendly, obviously very intoxicated. He is polite though, so i don't mind. i'm never opposed to some fun banter and respectful company.

He introduces himself, and his friend (he is TJ, and his friend is John). Once my drink arrives, TJ clinks glasses with me in a "Cheers". He makes sure to tell me about his recent divorce. He makes some lighthearted conversation about this and that. He flirts with me but it's also lighthearted and fun.

TJ says something to John, i don't quite catch it but John says, "Yes, but she is making eye contact with me."

John wasn't wrong.

Although TJ is the one i'm sitting next to, and he is the one chatting me up, John is the one i am eyeing.

TJ is striking me as kind of like a Chihuahua...high energy, somewhat amusing, but loud and needy.

John on the other hand...maybe more like a Great Dane. Quiet, stronger, more in control. "A man of few words", TJ says. But you just know that he is a man of action and takes pride in keeping himself and his household in order.

It doesn't hurt that John really reminds me of my ex. i don't really have one type...i have a few types...and he is definitely one of them.

TJ continues talking to me, making me laugh. Not because he is particularly funny or witty, but because it's amusing. He fist bumps and cheers' me many more times.

He says, "I can tell you have a dark side. I want to see you with your hair down." i laugh, full and throaty. If only he knew.

TJ & John finish their last drinks and they get up to leave. TJ turns to me to say goodbye. He's definitely dropped hints (more than hints) about exchanging phone numbers...leaving together...

But as the two men go to leave, it's John who i make eye contact with, waving goodbye from the corner of the bar.


bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4236 posts
10/17/2022 4:33 am

usually how it works the one you like isn’t interested in you!



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