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pomonagirl909 47F
280 posts
11/27/2023 10:48 am
In Response to that Age Old Question: Have You Found What You Are Searching For On Here Yet?


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pomonagirl909 47F
165 posts
11/27/2023 10:49 am

Hi [Insert Masterly Screen Name Here],

i am working on it!

i am currently in a non monogamous D/s relationship with a Dominant who lives in Los Angeles, around forty miles away. It's been going good and is a new experience for me. Having a Dominant who is also like a boyfriend, more than just a play partner. Even if it is a non traditional relationship.

The Munch that i host and organize is also going quite well and it is very fulfilling to me to be able to give back to the community in this manner and meet so many diverse, eclectic people.

In December i have some neat events to attend: i'll be having a booth at a few Kink Marketplaces at some Dungeons, a few Holiday Socials/Parties to attend, and i might go to a big Play Party on New Years Eve!!

Overall this year has been a very good one for me in regards to BDSM.

i began 2023 at a Dungeon and counted spankings as the crowd counted down the New Year.

i became involved with a more private house party group and met some super cool ass people who i now consider friends.

Starting up and building up my own Munch.

Having more courage to ask Dominants and Tops i know about playing.

And of course, meeting my Sir.

At the end of the day, i do think it's better to pursue what i can and enjoy, learn from, and grow from each opportunity rather than to always be searching for the things i do not have.


ActualizedDom 61M

11/27/2023 11:29 am

"At the end of the day, i do think it's better to pursue what i can and enjoy, learn from, and grow from each opportunity rather than to always be searching for the things i do not have."

Many could benefit from this wisdom


pomonagirl909 replies on 11/27/2023 12:52 pm:
thank you for reading, and for leaving your nice comment!

fun4mp2 69M
26 posts
11/27/2023 11:50 am

Yes I did 5 years ago and still going strong.


pomonagirl909 replies on 11/27/2023 12:52 pm:
wonderful!

kinkydaddycock1 58M
44 posts
11/27/2023 12:36 pm

sounds sad . try reading a book .


pomonagirl909 replies on 11/27/2023 12:51 pm:
currently reading a new novel written my one of my friends!

bikerforslut 64M
329 posts
11/27/2023 1:05 pm

I met my current sub on here about 8 years ago. You are lucky to have access of many events in your area. Where we live it's really a dead zone as for as this lifestyle goes.


pomonagirl909 replies on 11/27/2023 1:36 pm:
i am so glad that you have a long term partner, that's amazing! and yes. i am lucky to live close enough to Los Angeles in order to access events. But the city in which i live is also a dead zone for events, that's why i created my own munch here.

RobertBishop 66M  
2145 posts
11/27/2023 1:17 pm

It sounds like this has been a good year for you.
I am glad you have felt sufficiently positive about recent developments that you've been generous in sharing them with those of us out here in the dark.
May next year be even better for you, your friends and your partners.


pomonagirl909 replies on 11/27/2023 1:38 pm:
thank you for your support, RobertBishop, i really appreciate it. Cheers to a better year ahead.

ClimaxHer 65M
139 posts
11/27/2023 1:19 pm

Many years ago, I met a nearby lady in a chatroom. A male "Dom" was verbally abusing her in the Master / slave room. I reported him for abuse. He got banned for his verbal abuse. She lived two hours drive away. We met one week later, face to face. I slept at her place that night. She curled up in my arms, in her apartment. She knew she was safe! We were a couple for two wonderful years. But, she left me for another man. He abused her.
I have searched for ten years to find "Mrs. ClimaxHer". There is very little here at Alt.
NO, I have not found what I am looking for. I will sing the U2 song "But I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For". I am looking at other websites, at other fetish networking sites. I am Romeo, and I am seeking my Juliette! I need her and she needs me!


pomonagirl909 replies on 11/27/2023 1:39 pm:
i hope that you find her! searching for that truly must be like a needle in a haystack.

RobertBishop 66M  
2145 posts
11/27/2023 2:49 pm

Thank you, young lady.
All the best, RB.


meltwill2 72M  
3807 posts
11/27/2023 3:24 pm

Yes I did....I have met several on here....but only one that was the "Have You Found What You Are Searching For On Here Yet?" Sadly she was gone in a few short years. It's been about 15 so far and when I think of her it is like yesterday. Her life was taken from her far to young...... She will always be my "Anna"..... I'll love you forever......


pomonagirl909 replies on 11/27/2023 6:24 pm:
thank you for sharing such a powerful memory. i appreciate it.

BDSMCouple_SoCal 62M/59F  
636 posts
11/27/2023 3:44 pm

Over the years we have met a few on here that we would up playing with as well as consider friends. Some have moved, some have ghosted but still have a good set of friends on here. We have seen your munch that you host and hope to attend soon, just conflicts of dates so far. Happy to hear things are going well for you.

Ms. Jay
bleash;


pomonagirl909 replies on 11/27/2023 6:26 pm:
Hello Ms. Jay, thank you so much for your comment! i am so glad that you have found people that remain friends or contacts. What more can a person ask for.
Thank you for considering attending my Munch, would absolutely love to meet you both there whenever the timing works out.

rosaenaluin 65F
11006 posts
11/29/2023 10:31 am

I am very happy for you, to have found your gang, so to say....
Your people.

The thing is, being JUST play partners is not fulfilling enough for me,
it leaves me behind empty.
When there is not any mental connection, FIRST.

also the play contacts i did have, where not really very .... aaah, well, what to call it??
My bad choices?

it is a dead zone, here, too.
I did organize my own munches, some years ago, the calibre of folks attening...
gruesome

Or there are swingerspartys...... not my gang.



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