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pomonagirl909 47F
280 posts
1/9/2024 10:12 am
To Escape or Not To Escape? A Rope Bondage Story


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pomonagirl909 47F
165 posts
1/9/2024 10:13 am

This morning i saw a great post about "Escape Artist Subs"...meaning, s-types or rope bottoms that enjoy "escaping" or wiggling out of rope bondage. i think that this is an important and not often talked about topic. Something that should definitely be negotiated before doing rope scenes.

Here's my little story on the subject:

my first Dominant had few rules with me but one was: any bondage item he placed on me (ie, collar, restraints, rope)...HE would remove. So i was trained to keep things on as a sign of respect, ritual and power exchange.

So imagine my surprise when, being tied by a friend after a munch/in a social setting, he does the tie then tells me to "Now try to escape"....my heart dropped and my mind raced in confusion.

Once i recovered enough to answer him, i just said, "Oooohhhhh i'd just like to stay in it for a little while."

As i basked in the snug, secure embrace of the rope, the sun shining through the window, everyone commented and smiled at how blissful i looked.


drmgirl622 68F  
26178 posts
1/9/2024 10:49 am

You made the right decision!


pomonagirl909 replies on 1/9/2024 3:23 pm:
Hahaha! It really caught me off guard and i learned that different Doms and Tops want different things from their rope partners!

FunAlphaGuy 56M

1/9/2024 10:57 am

"how blissful i looked." i can imagine how beaautiful a sight that must have been


pomonagirl909 replies on 1/9/2024 3:24 pm:
thank you! being "hugged" by rope is one of my happy places!

owned_one 55F
89 posts
1/9/2024 9:02 pm

M'Lord will sometimes tell me to try to escape just to drive home for me that I *can't*. Once I've sincerely tried but still failed, it makes me feel that much more wonderfully helpless.


pomonagirl909 replies on 1/10/2024 12:11 am:
Oooh that sounds delightful!! Thank you for sharing, owned_one.

RobertBishop 66M  
2156 posts
1/10/2024 5:26 am

Some doms just like to watch you struggle and squirm.
By the same token, I read once of a sub who liked to be sassy and try to get loose, but admitted that "my favorite part is when I lose."


pomonagirl909 replies on 1/11/2024 12:01 pm:
hahaha! That's awesome! And yes. All Doms (and subs) may want different things out of the same Kink activities.


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