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i don't have fantasies. i have goals. blog to follow in first comment. |
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It gets a little frustrating sometimes when i am hit with that question, "What's your biggest fantasy..." Or worse yet, when someone just barges in to my inbox, telling me in detail their fantasy. Truth is, i really do not focus on "fantasies". Sure, i have them and (ahem) use them in appropriate settings. But i rather focus on reasonable, achievable goals, done with people that i trust, respect and can be myself around. Oh how the tide of my inbox turned, once i got involved in the community and was no longer a wide-eyed newbie who believed that everyone with the title of "Dom" or "Master" had gone to "Dom" or "Master" school. my answer to the question of "What's your biggest fantasy? What are your goals?" became things like: --to explore more of the Dungeons in and around LA --to go to more Classes and learn all i can about safety and techniques --to get Flogged and Tied by highly skilled people that i trust --to give back to the Community in whatever ways that i can Boy oh boy did that quickly dry up the lightening-round, 20 questions style "interviews" from all the anonymous Internet Insta Doms! But some of them still pushed. "But don't you want to be a slave someday?" "What makes you orgasm?" "Shaved or Natural?" "What's your biggest fantasy?" "Why aren't you owned?" "How many Doms have you served?" "When did you know you were a sub?" "How much can you take?" "Are you bisexual?" Ummmm yeah, so first of all, NONE of that is your business, and second of all, there are many more ways to explore BDSM rather than the newbie sub to being owned by random internet dom pipeline. It'd be laughable if it wasn't so damn potentially damaging. So yeah. What's my fantasy? Currently: --to be in a better position financially to go to more Play Parties & Social Events... --to see my Munch grow and prosper and become a long running, trusted thing for the community... --to find a more private venue for different types of Social and Educational Events.... --to find my new favorite Dungeon/Play Space/Play Party Group... --to continue to give back to the Community in different ways that i can... --to foster relationships with cool Kinksters whose company i enjoy... --and maybe, someday, to fall in love with someone who loves me the same way in return (not holding my breath on that one!). You know. Boring shit that doesn't have to do with your dick. LOL!
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It might sound boring to some but I think they're great goals!!
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Fantasies are for those unable to make it a reality.. So your goals are quiet nobel.
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well, back a while ago, i had goals, i have surpassed them, is what, next??
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