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Dom/sub Radar blog to follow in first comment. thanks for reading! |
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We went out a few times, years ago. Like, well over ten years ago. Long before i knew about BDSM, and my place within it. But even before i knew about BDSM i knew that i was different, somehow. We went out a few times and like, we are a great match on paper. He's not bad looking. Right around my age. Intelligent and quick-witted. We had a lot of the same interests in music, film and the arts. And boy oh boy, did he ever like me. But, there was always something. Or rather, something was missing. Something that i couldn't put my finger on. But something that held me back. No matter how cool he was, how close by he lived, how much he doted on me. Even that time we got kinda drunk and fooled around. i just never felt the spark. Lately, he's been in touch again and asking to take me to dinner. (checks social calendar) Well...who am i to say no? So we got together and had an amazing meal. With his background as a trained Chef, i was more than happy to let him choose the place, and to order for us. As always, the conversation was great. We talked a lot about weird movies and stuff. We talked about work for a while. It was then that i decided to broach the subject. "That 'Private Event' i am vending at near the end of the month, is actually at a BDSM Dungeon." He looks surprised, but not shocked. After all, he is a man of the world. He's been around, and seen a lot. Mostly, he just laughs and says, "See? That's why you are so cool." He goes on to say that BDSM never really interested him. Although he does like to give spankings on occasion. "But...the whole...BEING DOMINANT thing..." he is stumbling a bit to find the words..."It just doesn't interest me." Years before i had the words for it...i always somehow knew. That he wasn't Dominant. That he needed a woman to take the lead, in the bedroom at least. Have you ever met someone and just KNOWN? Just had that feeling...this person is Dominant, or submissive. And was your instinct correct? What 'tells' have you noticed in others, while out in the world? Inquiring minds want to know. As far as he & i...he wants to take me out again. If he is willing and able, and is fine with only a hug and a kiss goodbye...well... who am i to say no?
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"Have you ever met someone and just KNOWN? Just had that feeling...this person is Dominant, or submissive." ~~~~~~~Oh yea, many times~~~~~~~~ "And was your instinct correct?" ~~~~~~~every time it was correct~~~~~~
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I can't say if I was correct, but I've definitely gotten a vibe.....
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Yes, i had.... a few times, and also about men being submissive, wanting the woman to take the lead... I just pick his energy? vibe? out of the air around him.... or something like that... It is something, about them being in (self) controle, first and formost. And also something protective in their ways... i dont know how to explain it..... It's a 'feel' i get from them....
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