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01Jackhammer 59M
11 posts
8/30/2022 9:05 am
What percentage ?

Of all the members in this sandbox, What is your estimate of scammers infiltrating the site?
100%
99%
98%
97%
95%
90%
80%
75%
50%
1%


looking4fat 72T

8/31/2022 5:02 am

It depends on your definition of "scammers." If you mean people who are trying to cheat you out of your money. I would guess around 10 percent. And most would be those who claim to be female dommes looking for "slaves" to serve them. Especially, those who cut and paste the same exact comments on every photo that is posted.

On the other hand, if you include those who "toy with your affections" in order to get their jollies, but never intend to actually meet... The number jumps to 75 percent. (Or more.)

One thing is true though: if you ignore them, the scammers and most of the fakes do not stay around for long.

My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do.


rosaenaluin 65F
11006 posts
8/31/2022 12:08 pm

Dont forget, this site is also for the fantasy of a lot of people, who dont dare to put in action, what their fantasy may be?

Or the married guy /woman with no balls, to get out of that horrible marriage,
just want to "live" their fantasy dream...
Percentage? i would not be able to give a number on that.


aldompdx 62M
1074 posts
8/31/2022 12:12 pm

Hugh zed "sandbox"... uh huh huh
Kauc knot deafungejin

No sand here.
What "eco-box" is that?

Via my handle ALDOMPDX, I communicate on the usual daught calm places.


Will35 61M
394 posts
8/31/2022 8:41 pm

"Sandbox" has several idiomatic meanings in English, all, I think, based on the noun meaning a box with sand in it in a playground for children.
I've also heard it used for a cat's litter box and "cat sand" for the litter itself.
In online/computer games, it's used for games that do not have a set "path" or "route" but let the characters/avatars go where they want and do what they want.
Here, I'm guessing it's something akin to that last since there isn't a lot of moderation and no attempt to limit everyone into one kind of partnership/relationship/etc.


Will35 61M
394 posts
8/31/2022 8:44 pm

I voted 95% because every contact I've had that's led to more than a few messages ended up in email or, a few of times, Discord or Kik. All but two or three ended up asking me for money, a CC number, or my phone number without video chatting first, let alone meeting in person. And I like to travel and offered to meet a couple of women in Europe, so ...


rondiri 65M
11178 posts
8/31/2022 11:11 pm

Hard to estimate the male scammers since I don't deal with them. Female profiles of scammers I'd say a good 80%


bipantyboy63 61M

9/1/2022 5:42 am

Well I gave it 75% because at least 75% of the ones I have talked to just vanish or never do meet. Another reason is why would someone 2,000 miles away in another country be serious


Martin1467 57M  
71 posts
9/1/2022 2:03 pm

I think "looking4fat" is in general right. I can't fix it to a percentage, but the share of real scammer looking for money or collecting data is not that big (though increased significantly the last few motnhs), and usually easy to recognize. Certainyl there are many peopel here just to chat and talk about fantasies, never daring to meet. from what I know from femal friends who are also on here, a lot of guys just have compeltely unrealistic expectations...
And yes it might happen that your chat partner has not the same kinks and ideas as you, this doesn't mean that it is a scammer. Please accept that people are individual.


pinchanipple 60F
52 posts
9/6/2022 4:25 am

I encounter men who are not interested in the lifestyle. No idea about what a dom is! They think calling me a cunt makes them dom...it really just makes them stupid...not a scammer.

Or maybe trying to scam getting laid thinking that a sub is an easy lay? Im a sub and no miss america but still very choosey who i become involved with.


iwouldlike1000 51M
2 posts
10/1/2022 4:46 am

I said 75 %, I had to leave some hope that there are Genuine Dommes here

I would guess that 30 % of profiles are probably totally fake, to make my 75 % i have included possibly real profiles, but they are running scams and after money, the Trainig Kit scan is alive and well among other scams.


obedientboy56 57M
24 posts
11/21/2022 7:11 am

Far too many, that's for sure.



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