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CBLady 55F
32 posts
1/9/2022 1:01 pm
Ramblings

OK..... todays thoughts.
BDM hit the nail on the head about my thoughts on doing what i'm told on line.
For someone who had to fight to have an opinion ( long story there), in stead of being the obedient family member, who jumps when told and says " how high", i'll admit i do struggle with this, on top of being an Aussie and always having/wanting a laugh.

So yes in the chat room i have called BDM " Bossy britches", stamped my foot and walked off, but for the most part i do as i'm told.

Its a daily struggle.
Many times i sit there and say to my self " he wants me to do what " and i think... i'm sitting at my desk, this is not possible. But i make it work some how.

i'm happy to hear your thoughts.

CBLady 55F
28 posts
1/9/2022 11:14 pm

 Thank you BDM


CBLady 55F
28 posts
1/10/2022 11:41 am

 thank you Wassie.
Well today was good but ended on a bit of an emotional down.
I was happy to do as i'm told, even a little reluctantly in some parts, but i did and the out come was good, till the end.
Got a little emotional on the wind down and now not sure about a few things.
I need a few answers, as i have just given something, im now second guessing.

something to ponder about today


Siempretuyo2021 53M

1/10/2022 2:17 pm

 and some of us are eager to hear your thoughts too, maybe some fantasy, or why not, that you lose your fears and turn on your IM camera, very soon perhaps, but you will see that you can do it in private, or for everyone, as it is only you You must decide only you will know if you want or do not want to, do not let yourself be pressured by anything or anyone, the rest of us can only accept what you decide, I like to respect everyone's tastes and I am not a judge of anything or anyone,
Many greetings
Always yours.
PS I am not staying in the room because I have to translate into Spanish and that makes a conversation with many people difficult


Everythingsup 54M
581 posts
2/1/2022 3:22 pm

 doing as im told has never sat well with me why cant people do as they are asked noone like to be told it implies you have no will or choice when the will and choice are yours to exercise always as is the right to say stop and no. I have also found that asking yields better and far more positive results for both parties as things are more relaxed and fun.



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