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rondiri 65M
7306 posts
2/28/2022 2:26 pm

Last Read:
7/17/2022 12:57 pm

I must be missing something


I get a visit to my profile, then a flirt or hot listing.
My status says if you flirt or shortlist me, I will message
them back in case the lady can not send a message first.
BUT......

rondiri 65M
11173 posts
2/28/2022 2:29 pm

The profile is UNAVAILABLE!
Why send a flirt or hot list and prevent any response?????
Happens frequently enough that I have to be missing something.


drmgirl622 68F  
26104 posts
2/28/2022 3:02 pm

I've had the same thing and I'll be damned if I can figure it out.


Boggles2001 61M  
408 posts
2/28/2022 3:10 pm

Personally i guess it’s one of two things,,..

A ,,.The person is getting so many e mails messages that she can’t handle it and so still wants to look but not be overwhelmed by messages…not sure how you are supposed to respond though,,,

B..It’s a scammer who doesn’t want you checking her out and seeing she’s an obvious fake but still wants to hook you in….i find that anyone who does two or even all three…flirt hotlist view is almost guaranteed to be a scammer..


Dave54321 61M
2718 posts
2/28/2022 3:53 pm

Yeah it's really annoying when that happens.
I've seen it suggested that they have switched their profile to
unavailable accidently & don't realise that they've done it.
Who knows!


footer77 55M  
186 posts
2/28/2022 6:15 pm

Happens all the time. You can view them (but not the profile, just pics) in the flirt section if you hover your cursor over the flirt.

However if you click on the profile name……blah….unavailable.

Either the site is broken or they turned off the profile? It cannot be the
Standard vs. paid member thing. So either the site is broken or they are flakes


WhiteDom4BlacFem 50M
105 posts
2/28/2022 6:18 pm

The person is more than likely a fake. They are a bait mechanism used here to get you to upgrade or to cause frustration at real time connections.

I have found genuine people behave sincerely.

My experience and two cents.


AdultBabyBoy1 69M  
18 posts
2/28/2022 8:22 pm

I've run into this many times. When I do, I just add them to my block list.


1naughtydom 75M

2/28/2022 8:57 pm

Blocking is the better part of valor


Boggles2001 61M  
408 posts
3/1/2022 12:48 am

    Quoting  :

Nods yep …option B …



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