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rondiri 65M
7310 posts
5/1/2022 9:11 pm

Last Read:
5/26/2022 5:07 pm

Aftercare



It's a Dominant's responsibility! Not a kind gesture.

rondiri 65M
11184 posts
5/1/2022 9:12 pm

And a submissive has a right to expect it.


WillingXLeather 42M

5/1/2022 10:57 pm

That meme sums up aftercare quite nicely. At least from my perspective, it's one of those responsibilities that doesn't require much in the way of discussion beforehand. I don't think I'll ever quite understand Dom/Dommes that don't engage in such an important aspect of a D/'s relationship.


rondiri replies on 5/2/2022 7:44 am:
I agree, all Dominants should prioritize aftercare.

Tckg12 69M
2514 posts
5/2/2022 2:26 am

as a submissive i agree with that completely


rondiri replies on 5/2/2022 7:46 am:

brandygirasol 55T
9435 posts
5/2/2022 3:39 am

COOL 😊😊😊


rondiri replies on 5/2/2022 7:46 am:

sletje1999 24F
134 posts
5/2/2022 3:49 am

I definitely like to cuddle after a session, especially if it was intense. I need that to feel that I'm valued and cared for. And to relativity the things that may have happened. Anyone thinking that that would take away from his dominance simply has not understood BDSM. It makes me want to do it again and possibly try harder to nudge a limit a little further. And of course after calming down a bit, I need to talk about it, honestly, openly and without false shame of any sort, also from him.


rondiri replies on 5/2/2022 7:48 am:
sounds like you speak from experience.

kivrin2 50F
22 posts
5/2/2022 8:05 am

Absolutely subs need aftercare. Depending on intensity, I may just want a little bit of cuddles, to a bit more. Master has a tendency to cuddle me some .. unless I am so sensitive that I cum at the slightest touch -- then he usually cooks me dinner. He loves to cook If it has been a really heavy thuddy or stingy scene, he may get a bath ready with epsom salts.

If you haven't experienced drop after an intense scene, it is a real thing. If a dom hasn't done something for it, it may mean that the sub ends up seeing the scene very differently.


rondiri replies on 5/2/2022 10:00 am:
Thanks for your thoughts

drmgirl622 68F  
26126 posts
5/2/2022 9:46 am

The aftercare brings an even deeper bond.


rondiri replies on 5/2/2022 1:16 pm:
yes, it can. And not doing it can build resentment

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4182 posts
5/2/2022 5:25 pm

most definitely...sensuous rubs licks & kisses afterwards reassure her that she’s loved & wanted not used & abused!
good girls get hugs bad girls get spanked kinky girls get both!


ridermantel 68M

5/2/2022 6:16 pm

Beautiful.


rondiri replies on 5/2/2022 6:26 pm:
Thanks rider, miss reading your posts.


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