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rondiri 65M
7306 posts
6/24/2022 8:48 pm

Last Read:
8/18/2022 4:59 pm

Lack of Communication in BDSM



Respect, Trust, Honesty and Communication are all important to the BDSM relationship.
But I am positive that Communication is the most imperative to prevent a relationship from crumbling and harm from coming to a sub/slave.
If intentions, expectations and limits aren't communicated clearly, the imagination can take over and fill in what was left vague, to dire consquences

rondiri 65M
11185 posts
6/24/2022 8:49 pm

Be clear about limits, expectations and your intentions.


Kitcatshadow1 57F
507 posts
6/24/2022 9:23 pm

Communication is the corner stone in all walks of life. Just my two cents


rondiri replies on 6/24/2022 9:40 pm:
No argument from me.

ridermantel 68M

6/24/2022 11:12 pm

Communication is essential.


rondiri replies on 6/25/2022 10:02 am:
bingo

WillingXLeather 42M

6/24/2022 11:12 pm

I can't think of a better way to sum up the bedrock of D \'s relationship.


rondiri replies on 6/25/2022 1:24 pm:
thanks

Tckg12 69M
2519 posts
6/25/2022 2:25 am

this is very true!! poor communication can ruin a good relationship


rondiri replies on 6/25/2022 10:02 am:
will do it every time.

slaveforyou365 63M  
4515 posts
6/25/2022 3:11 am



Slave rick


rondiri replies on 6/25/2022 10:03 am:
ty

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4184 posts
6/25/2022 5:04 am

agreed open honest communication is essential to any relationship especially a bdsm relationship as trust is a major factor!


rondiri replies on 6/25/2022 10:03 am:
exactly

drmgirl622 68F  
26126 posts
6/25/2022 7:38 am

Communication comes in many forms and it's critical we use them all.


rondiri replies on 6/25/2022 1:24 pm:
so true.

pac369 64F  
12700 posts
6/25/2022 8:14 am

Totally agree Ron!
A subs imagination can really go off the rails
quite easily... Which is not a good thing...

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


rondiri replies on 6/25/2022 10:06 am:
And if a Dom's imagination goes off the rails, the sub can get permanently harmed, emotionally, mentally, and physically. Such a delicate balance that clear, good communication keeps in check.

ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
6/25/2022 12:01 pm

Couldn't agree more. Being an overthinker by my nature, open, direct, straightforward, honest communication is essential for the peace of my mind... otherwise, my mind starts creating zillion scenarios and not many of them lead to any good


rondiri replies on 6/25/2022 12:46 pm:

MujerdeNeggro 49F
1105 posts
6/27/2022 1:04 pm

La falta o pobre comunicación hace que mi mente se enrede en un mar de confusión y duda

Y quizás un instante sirva para trazar el camino que me guíe hacia tus ojos.



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