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Words I do not allow my slave to use.  Post in the comment section |
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There are certain words I do not allow my slave to use because of the negativity they represent. NO, CAN’T/CAN NOT, WON’T/WILL NOT, DON’T/DO NOT and TRY/TRIED Are forbidden when answering me. Of course, during negotiation, she had every right to object to this protocol or ask to amend all or part of it. Some will say, that “No” should be allowed, because a slave has a right to say “NO” to anything they are uncomfortable with. But “NO” can be voiced more positively. Me: “Can you handle this 8 inch anal plug?” My slave: “That would be beyond my capability, Sir.” Is much better than just a “NO, Sir”. Or “I can’t Sir.” Or “I won’t Sir”. Rather than saying “I can ‘TRY’ Sir.” My Slave answers, “We can attempt that, Sir.” Rather than explaining why she was unable to do something with “I ‘TRIED’ Sir.” Or “I ‘COULDN’T’ do this/that.” I prefer, “I did my best, Sir.” Or “I’ll do better, next time, Sir.” Or even, “It was too much for me, Sir.” If in a discussion about something that is beyond the slave’s limits or abilities. I would rather hear her explain WHY the discussed thing was beyond her limits and abilities, rather than just her saying, “I Can’t/Won’t do that.” I feel that negative words, like those I forbid, tend to close off discussion and produce negativity in the relationship. By not being able to use these words, my slave is encouraged to communicate the thoughts on the subject rather than using an easy negative word. And we all know how important open communication is in a relationship. The forbidding of the words, DOESN'T change safe words or limits, especially since these forbidden words are horrible safe words in the first place. What are your thoughts on this protocol?
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Ron your very clear guidelines enable your submissive to never actually say NO to anything you tell her to do - but at the same time you do leave some wiggle room for discussion if it's something your submissive REALLY does not wish to do.... BRAVO😊😊😊
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Totally agree the "N" word is forbidden here also..
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7/17/2022 7:08 am |
Ron your very clear guidelines enable your submissive to never actually say NO to anything you tell her to do - but at the same time you do leave some wiggle room for discussion if it's something your submissive REALLY does not wish to do.... BRAVO😊😊😊 
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I know that any negative words are strictly forbidden.
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you can’t make or force a sub to do anything BUT you can give them something to make them think about hard the next time they want to disobey you! I only want results not excuses tryin ain't doin or gettin it done a sub needs leeway to make the choice & decide wether or not to dig their own grave or plz their DOMinate!
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I would never stifle feminist intellectualism. Just saying.
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