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Kneeling is defined as “to position the body so that one or both knees rest on the floor,” according to Merriam-Webster. Kneeling is a primate behavior used to convey deference, by making the figure kneeling look smaller than the other. Kneeling is a very powerful act for both the Dominant and the submissive in a BDSM relationship. It is usually a basic part of a BDSM or D/s relationship as a symbol of the submission of one partner to the other. Though it looks easy, and for the young is almost always easy, but it can actually be quite physically taxing, not only as you get older, but depending on how you kneel and what position you are kneeling in. Kneeling is used for many things. Some ritualistic, some protocol, some disciplinary. When my slave visits, the first order of business is for her to get nude, and kneel in the Collaring Position, so I can place and lock her collar on for the visit. For discussions about rules, protocols or other Master/slave “business”, she kneels in the Rest Position as we converse. If I decide to deny her access to the furniture while we watch a movie, she kneels in the Rest or a relaxed position by my leg. Many use the Upright Kneeling Position when Dominant guests visit and the slave is answering questions. Then there is the kneeling in a corner discipline, of which there are many variations, some simple and some very strict and exhausting, some even painful. There’s also the kneeling torture positions. Such as balancing on the knees caps, kneeling on rice, beans or crushed dry pasta. And of course there is kneeling wherever for a good paddling, caning, spanking or flogging. But not all submissives are able to kneel for one reason or another. What do you do then? For some, kneeling on the bed or a pillow may enable them to assume that position. If they are able, sitting on the floor has the same effect as kneeling, lowering the person below the Dominant But if the legs will just not allow the getting down and back up again. Simple lowering of the eyes or keeping the head down are universally accept as submissive. Often time with the arms folded behind the back, or at least the hands clasped behind the back if folding is not a physical option. Bending at the waist, instead of kneeling for discipline Standing at attention or at “rest”, in front of a seated Dominant, depending on the circumstance Basically, anything the Dominant can think up as a substitute for kneeling can be used, because the partners know what it stands for. And that is the important thing. As we age or have injuries, we have to adjust in life to our new limitations, and that includes with the aspects of BDSM.
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This is so true. I can kneel, but damn once I am down there, you may as well just leave me there, as there is no way I can get back up again, unassisted.  But as you stated, there are many forms of showing ones submission. The lowering of the head, and no eye contact, in the past was always part of the dynamic for me.
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8/16/2022 9:45 pm |
Very good post. You covered the bases. The why and how and alternatives are expertly addressed and explained. A must read.
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8/17/2022 2:50 am |
My favorite position when with a Real Man. Kneeling before Him with my face between His legs, making Worshipful Love to His Manhood. It makes me feel small and controlled but warm and happy at the same time.  Bowing before and after is good too!  My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do. 
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8/17/2022 4:05 am |
My favorite position when with a Real Man. Kneeling before Him with my face between His legs, making Worshipful Love to His Manhood. It makes me feel small and controlled but warm and happy at the same time. Bowing before and after is good too! 
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Sir Ron admirably coveres kneeling submission in all aspects COOL😊 ... Note that even besides the BDSM scene I love getting down on my knees to service Men♥️ ...and sometimes also Women♥️. ...💋💋💋
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8/17/2022 5:32 am |
Sir Ron admirably coveres kneeling submission in all aspects COOL😊 ... Note that even besides the BDSM scene I love getting down on my knees to service Men♥️ ...and sometimes also Women♥️. ...💋💋💋
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I can kneel for short periods......depends on the bum knee 
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He must have got an A plus in that class.
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Ron I give you plenty of credit for being DIABOLICAL😏
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Thank you for sharing. When the heart, mind and soul are willing but the body can not do what it once could, often feels defeating. Kneeling seem to be the most common.
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8/18/2022 12:04 pm |
Thank you for sharing. When the heart, mind and soul are willing but the body can not do what it once could, often feels defeating. Kneeling seem to be the most common.
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I used to love the submission in kneeling, now it just brings pain as my knees are destroyed. When asked to kneel now i am to sit on my ass and pull my ankles/feet in towards my ass my legs still spread. Sometimes if I am to stay in that position for a length of time Sir uses a leather strap around my back and around each thigh. I guess it is similar to being bound on my back spread open. It works for us
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