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rondiri 65M
7284 posts
12/1/2022 9:31 pm

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12/4/2022 9:11 pm

Sensation play

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rondiri 65M
11119 posts
12/1/2022 9:31 pm

For the past few times we’ve played. My submissive and I have delved into sensory play, so I thought I’d do an article on it.

Sensation play, or erotic sensation games, are an array of activities, intended to relay physical sensations upon a companion, in order to ignite sexual excitement. This can be achieved using objects such as whips, candles, and anything else textured to create intense anticipation and build up sexual tension.
Sensation play can be sexy, light, and pleasing to the physical senses. The use of rose petals, velvet or silk scarves, feathers, cold leather whips, cubes of ice, temperature play, Wartenberg pinwheel, and other similar tools. It doesn’t have to be as intense as we’ve seen it portrayed in movies, and can easily be integrated into foreplay.
In other words, sensation play includes the application of a delicately controlled incentive to the human body so that it reacts to stimulated pain. While this can include the infliction of physical pain, it often releases endorphins, shaping a sensation similar to feeling high, as if you’ve just had an orgasm.
In BDSM activities, the Dominant uses power or carefully controls the sensation to the submissive.
Sensation Play Meaning
Sensation play is a type of domination that either focuses on sensation and pleasure/reward over pain and punishment or involves no pain/punishment at all. It might sound like an oxymoron, but it isn’t. Many people enjoy sensation play either as their favorite type of BDSM, as an introduction to its lifestyle, or just to break up more extreme sessions with something more subtle.
Sensation Play Tools
Sensation play focuses on sensation, this we know. So you can slide a piece of fur or a fur whip over your partner’s skin. You can caress them with silk or satin. In fact, there is a plethora of tools you can bring into the bedroom to create the sultry domination scene you desire.
Blindfolded: You can use a rolled-up cloth/t-shirt or tie as a blindfold, or purchase an elegant blindfold from your favorite sex shop.
Lightweight Bondage Gear: Cuffs and restraints to the bed work well for sultry domination. You can get out of them easily, but they still create perfect sensations.
Ice cubes: Tease your partner with an ice cube on their skin. Or you can put it in your mouth to experience the pleasures of temperature play.
Feathers and Fur: These create a soft feel as light as air for super subtle nerve stimulation.
Massage Candles: Candles made with coconut oil and similar ingredients melt at low temperatures, so even body temperature causes some melting. Run it over your partner’s body and rub it on their skin for a relaxing massage.
Play toys – Wartenberg pinwheel: Want to test new sensations during your lovemaking? The BDSM pinwheel is the perfect tool to test your partner’s sensitivity. It is an essential accessory to use in your sensation play. The passage of the wheel over the skin and nerve areas, depending on the pressure exerted, generates a tingling, tickling, irritating, or sharp pain that so many lovers enjoy.

The above description is from an online store, but describes well the meaning.
You can get started with sensory play easily with common things you have at home, without spending a fortune.
We start with a blindfold and ear plugs, then coils of rope to tie her to the bed.
I have 2 different pinwheels to use (a single wheel and a tandem 5 wheel). Peacock feathers (or any feather), spiked gloves to remove excess hair from pets (Instead of vampire gloves with tacks), ice cubes, a few different size paint brushes, a crop, flogger, paddle, canes and fingernails work well, vibrators, wands, anything that retains cold or heat can be used.
I like to mix up the sensations, going from ticklish to pricklish, and back and forth. Mixing in the impact toys on occasion when least expected.
So far we haven’t incorporated candles or electric play. But soon I think.
We burn incense also, since it helps her relax, and adds to the sensory input
We played with her on her back, and on her stomach. Each gives a different way to use each item chosen
We have found sensory play is the best way for my Lady to enter subspace, since her senses go on a roller coaster ride of sensations.
If you try sensory play, I hope you enjoy it. But Dominants, be alert. A submissive can get lost in the sensory input and be unable to communicate normally, due to sensory overload or entering subspace.
© 12/1/22 Ronald Dirienzo


meltwill2 72M  
3773 posts
12/1/2022 10:26 pm

Nice read......I have always liked sensory play. Let the mind play it out. Just drift off into the unknown.


rondiri replies on 12/2/2022 1:14 pm:

boh99 68M
3125 posts
12/1/2022 11:17 pm

what's it like for the dom when the sub goes into sub-space ?


rondiri replies on 12/2/2022 1:16 pm:
For me, a little concerning and a lot happy. Happy that she got so aroused and is enjoying everything. Concerned that nothing goes to far because communication lapses...

brandygirasol 54T
9414 posts
12/2/2022 3:19 am

Blindfolds and Bondage EEEEEEEK😵


rondiri replies on 12/2/2022 1:17 pm:

manni_pr 52T
2604 posts
12/2/2022 8:05 am

I love this type of play


rondiri replies on 12/2/2022 1:17 pm:

rydermantel 69M
24604 posts
12/2/2022 10:27 am

I think they are COOL and CRUEL as it should be. Just take what's coming. Is that not what a submissive does?


rydermantel 69M
24604 posts
12/2/2022 10:28 am

    Quoting manni_pr:
    I love this type of play
That's right.


Rowena_H_of_A 38F  
363 posts
12/2/2022 11:32 am

I find myself 'speechless' ..
Thank you for sharing it, I may read it again and again..
That is after I regain my breathing..


kajira belongs to Master Adomis4u2


rondiri replies on 12/2/2022 1:18 pm:
Glad you enjoyed

drmgirl622 68F  
26010 posts
12/2/2022 11:59 am

I've had some interesting ice cube experiences


rondiri replies on 12/2/2022 1:18 pm:

brandygirasol 54T
9414 posts
12/2/2022 5:22 pm

    Quoting rydermantel:
    I think they are COOL and CRUEL as it should be. Just take what's coming. Is that not what a submissive does?
Oh YES I do what I'm told and I bend over and take whatever My DOM dishes out I take it and like it with no backtalk... 😎


rydermantel 69M
24604 posts
12/2/2022 5:25 pm

    Quoting brandygirasol:
    Oh YES I do what I'm told and I bend over and take whatever My DOM dishes out I take it and like it with no backtalk... 😎
Sounds good.



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