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After care is an important part of scene play… or after scene play. Depending on what is done during the scene, how long it lasts and the intensity of the scene, the submissive could need a little to a lot of care after the scene. Aftercare involves not only tending to any small wounds or abrasions with lotions, Band-Aids, bruise creams, etc… But also giving the submissive something to drink to replenish fluids lost during play. Something sweet to boost low energy caused by the scene. The submissive may need to be kept warm with a nice snuggly blanket, since their body temp can drop during play while nude and due to body reactions. Many submissives need to be cuddled and comforted after play, so the know that everything in play didn’t mean the Dominant was displeased or upset with them if the play gets rough, or degradation was included. Dominants also can need aftercare. Many Dominants feel regret of some sort with some play and need to cuddle to know the submissive isn’t upset with what happened during the scene. Dominants also can lose fluids and energy during an intense scene. It’s always a good idea to have a “kit” put together for aftercare. A beverage to replenish fluids Candy to replace energy used. Bruise creams for after impact play. Aloe lotion for abraded skin after bondage or impact play. A blanket and pillow for warmth and comfort. Anything you might need or the submissive or Dominant might ask for afterwards should be at hand. You will figure extra things out through trial and error. But the basics you will want handy after each scene, since you would rather not leave the submissive sitting alone while the Dominant runs around looking for what the submissive needs or wants. Some people will say, “Oh, I don’t need anything after play.” And that may be true, but everyone should drink and eat something after the exertion, just like you would if you were working out at a gym. Aftercare is not only for the physical body needs, but the mental and emotional needs of each partner. At times the mental and emotional aftercare may be the more important, but everyone is different. After play discussion is also an important part of Aftercare. Make sure each partner isn’t feeling a resentment about something that happened, whether in script or out of the script you planned for the scene. Don’t let things fester that can be talked out. Don’t ignore problems you feel happened. This is the time to discuss and rectify. Never assume your partner is 100% ok after play. Always make sure you sit and rest up before going on with the rest of your day. Just remember, when play stops, aftercare begins. © 12/10/22 Ronald Dirienzo
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Oh yes after my asswhipping I expect My DOM to pamper me with drinks and bon-bons🤩 ... You did mention candy as part of aftercare... Ha👄
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My rigger apply lotions and we have a cool down time. Then, we move on to a snack and drinks. Feedback and conversation is almost as fun as the play. It often turns quite educational and we both share our feelings.
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I assumed it is a bonding time for each? kajira belongs fully to Master Adomis4u2
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Good advice....
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Good one.
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