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Are injuries acceptable in BDSM scene play? Article in comments |
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Sometimes, hopefully rarely, injuries happen during scene play. I for one, NEVER want my submissive to get injured. But there are some Dominants and submissives that are more sadistic and masochistic than I am or my submissive is. In their case, acceptable injuries are dependent on interpretation of acceptable and the severity of the play. Playing with a braided, knotted or metal flogger, WILL produce cutting of the skin and bleeding from those cuts. There’s almost no way around it, so it’s acceptable, not really even considered injuries. Both the Sadistic Dominant and masochistic submissive expect the cutting and bleeding and the time it will take for healing. They wait expectantly for the healing so they can do it all over again. The same can be said about those that play with knives and cutting. Then there are those that go even further. Who boast about the use of impact implements like crow bars and sledge hammers, metal pipes, wooden rods, chain links, etc. These people feel acceptable injuries go further than cutting and bleeding. These people feel the occasional broken bone or internal injury is just the price you pay to play in that dynamic. How they get by the Emergency Room scrutiny about these injuries is beyond me. My question to everyone is, How far is too far? We know that everyone decides on what is an acceptable risk, themselves. Hopefully, they have been told, or researched everything about what they are deciding on. But when does it go too far? Is using a metal pipe or baseball bat for impact play Safe, or Sane, even if it is consensual? Is the chance of breaking bones or causing internal injuries an acceptable risk for a Dominant to take? Is the chance of breaking bones or causing internal injuries an acceptable risk for a submissive to risk? Broken bones and internal injuries CAN lead to death. If a sliver of bone enters the blood stream, or the internal injury is to an internal organ. So what do you think? © 1/27/23 Ronald Dirienzo
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For One I never Ever want a sub of mine permenitly inured , ive seen enough pain in my personal life that I never what to see some one Injred
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All those things cited above seem quite extreme... Metal pipes and flails OMG ....Well once a DOM wanted to shove a baseball bat up my ass but I declined-thank you😵 ... As far as acceptable injuries go when I feel the sting of a crop across my derriere I feel terribly injured for awhile butt I never seem to learn my lesson... Ha🤪
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I think like athletes say there's a difference between hurt and injured. Injury implies something that will either require treatment or some period of time disabled. The sting of a whip or paddling and the bruising left behind hurts but usually, if done correctly, leaves you with something to remember for awhile but is not something that will lead to permanent injury or injury that will leave someone incapacitated or disabled for a time. The implements you mention in teh blog to me are totally unacceptable in play
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It's like everything in life...if your not qualified/ not experienced or have a partner equally qualified.. Then maybe you don't go to extremes... But with everything in life.. There is a risk of just getting out of bed
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If people have a good long think about this, almost all play is destructive to some extent. I used to have a photo in my gallery of a girls ass that had been cropped so often and for so long, that her cheeks were a mass of varicose veins. She had a hard time sitting. She required surgery to repair as good as possible, and the vascular surgeon recommended she stop the practice as it may lead to death if she continued. If you subject your sub to stripes or welts, this is the path you are heading down. A generally reddened ass is a form of inflammation that is short lived and pretty much harmless over the long term. A reddened ass can be very painful with even light impact if you take it far enough over a long period of time. It will rarely cause any long term or permanent damage. Always be aware, there is risk in EVERYTHING, regardless of what you do.
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All those things cited above seem quite extreme... Metal pipes and flails OMG ....Well once a DOM wanted to shove a baseball bat up my ass but I declined-thank you😵 ... As far as acceptable injuries go when I feel the sting of a crop across my derriere I feel terribly injured for awhile butt I never seem to learn my lesson... Ha🤪 
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Reasonability of risk levels are relative. People should determine such reasonability and then be responsible and own responsibility.
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Yeah, well..... impact play has always a certain amount of risk in it. it is about what the two people involved agreed on. And read up about it. i once did meet with a guy who wanted to use those small aluminium cups to do candle play..... This was negotiation time. He, was abvious, a no no, did not know that the wick in that cup is very, very hot, can give you three degree burns. When i told him that , he looked as if i was talking Turkish or something that asshole never thought about safety. God knows how may women he abused! all under the name of 'candle play". So, i told that person, i dont think so. So? what is too dangerous, when one or both persons dont use their brain. it can all look real great in your own little porn fantasy..... Also, as a masochiste, i am not afraid when there is some blood going on. it is not my goal, but things can happen, no big deal, as long as the dominant /master takes his responsibility for that Pipes and baseball bats? I think that is some real nasty porn movie some have been watching... There are real hard core masochistes, sadists who want to take it really far! Who am you/i to judge their needs and wants? The base is, is it negotiated? DO they both agree? Are they both risk aware? Then it is non of your or mine busniss. When you dont have the sadistic needs/wants, or the masochistic wants and needs, you have nothing to judge about. Mind your own way of being/acting the dominant role, or submissive role. Sadists and masochists do not do the same thing over and over again.
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