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Just as important as the physical wellbeing of a submissive is the mental and emotional wellbeing. So many little things can affect the emotions and mental side of a person. Over the weekend I got a delivery of some new toys that cause excitement for both me and my submissive. Opening the box raised the anticipation level for the night. Well the box turned out to be pretty much a dud when the toys were brought out to play with. The vibrating toys will get more use, but they weren’t the hit I had hoped for. The big letdown were the leather toys. A waist belt and a belt to hold a wand in place. Both were too small around to fit. Here’s where the emotional and mental wellbeing of my submissive came in. We were both disappointed we couldn’t use either of the belts, but my submissive let her brain start overthinking. She blamed herself for the belts no fitting, when it was me that should have thought ahead about it. It was my responsibility now to get her out of her funk about the issue. I adjusted my plans for the evening, first consoling her and telling her it was just a delay and not her fault. That helped her start looking forward again to using the belt. Then I adjusted the plan for restraining her that night, and in the end, she was wobbly legged and a happy camper. Then I finalized the plan for the belts by getting online and ordering “kilt extenders”. Leather straps to extend the waistline of a kilt. Should work perfectly with the leather waist belts. Now my submissive isn’t blaming herself and her emotions and mental state are back where they should be. She just needed to hear I love her the way she is, and that we can make things work if we try, and that I was the one that was sorry the night didn’t go as planned. That I was the one that would make it right for her. A simple thing like ordering something we wanted, triggered an emotional and mental response that was negative when the items arrived. It would have been easy to scrap the night and go to sleep with those thoughts fresh in our minds. But that’s not what I wanted for my submissive. Getting her past those thoughts were all I wanted for the night at that point. So I worked to give her a night she would enjoy and remember. Soon enough we will get to use the belts. Hopefully I, as a Dominant, won’t make the mistake again and put my submissive in a bad emotional state again any time soon. Since I’m not perfect, it could happen. But, I will just set my mind to rectifying the issue and see to my treasures mental and emotional wellbeing once again. It’s an important responsibility that is as ongoing as looking after her physical wellbeing. It doesn’t matter if it’s something I’ve goofed with, something at work, or with family. My submissive’s wellbeing is a responsibility I took on, and I promised to care for. She will never be alone with her problems with me around. © 3/6/23 Ronald Dirienzo
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Well as they say... The best laid plans of DOMs and SUBs.... Ha👅
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