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If at first you don’t succeed… trying something new Article in comments |
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During the course of a dynamic, as both the Dominant and submissive evolve, there will undoubtedly be new things that will want to be tried. These new things may not always succeed the first time for many reasons. At this point, the partners have a choice to make. Permanently scrap the new thing and move on to something else. Or stop the first attempt, but try again at a later time, maybe even many more times before actually succeeding, or ending the experiment. First time failure shouldn’t always be looked on as a total failure. Gradually reattempting can sometimes be found to get more accustomed to the thought and the actual act of the new idea. An example is anal penetration. Many times the first attempt is met with complete resistance. But if the partners don’t just scrap the idea, with patience and gradual attempts, or moving to a smaller insertion, it may become more acceptable. Each instance of a new idea will be different. The variables will change. Does one partner really want to try it, or both? Can one partner adapt their thinking on the new idea? Can tolerances handle the new idea? Any new idea should be discussed thoroughly before hand. Surprise will often lead to a negative response just because of the shock factor. If the first attempt fails, more discussion might or might not help, but should always occur, if only for both partners to know each other’s feelings on the matter and how each other are thinking. Communication is essential. Don’t bottle up your feelings on the matter and allow resentment to fester. Get everything out in the open. With patience and communication, the initial dislike may just become something tolerable if not enjoyable for both partners. Sometimes the unknown of a new idea can make us stop too soon to really find out if we enjoy something or not. Don’t be afraid to retry, slowly and gradually to get a better idea. But also, don’t be coerced or manipulated into retrying something that you absolutely feel you can’t do. As always, consent with new ideas and reattempts is essential. © 4/7/23 Ronald Dirienzo
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Old saying If at first you don't succeed, try, try, try, again. Don't give up on the goal, think of another way to obtain it. New aproach
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Practice makes perfect. And many times told before, it all comes down to communication and patience
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If at first you don't succeed keep on sucking till you do succeed..... 
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Well some things I cannot physically do as requested like...COWGIRL style fucking😮.... Sure I can sit on a man's cock but then I'm helplessly impaled and can't move except maybe to roll my hips😵...I can't bounce up and down on his cock like the guy wants me to unless HE bounces me up and down on it.... Ha🤪
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I have heard people say, try at least three times, and if you dont like it then, then at least you know what you dont want/ like I like that as a sort of rule, unless it is physical not possible, than it is off the list. talk, talk, talk first, always!
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