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Something we should never want to do to a submissive, or a Dominant, is damage them. Not only physically, but emotionally and mentally also. Pain and hurt are part of many BDSM dynamics. A wide variety of kinks consist of giving pain, causing physical hurt. But, causing physical, emotional or mental harm/damage to a partner crosses the line. From a Dominant’s perspective, it violates our responsibility to see to the safety, health and wellbeing of the submissive. Of course, accidents happen, as much as we strive to avoid them. Usually they are physical accidents during scene play, though they can also lead to emotional and mental damage that can sidetrack a dynamic’s trust between partners. There are also those partners that attempt extreme kinks where damage is more difficult to avoid. Personally, I can’t imagine being responsible for my submissive needing a cast for broken bones, surgery, or worse. Nor can I imagine my submissive needing a mental health professional to help them recover from damage I inflicted. I would much prefer my submissive to be in the best of health, physically, mentally and emotionally so they can not only grow as a submissive and person, but to be capable of serving me uninterrupted by damaging injuries. A Dominant that isn’t a bit damaged themselves after damaging their own submissive, would seem to be a cold, uncaring person, more interested in their own indulgences than the growth of the submissive and the dynamic. From a submissive’s perspective, never think that actions and words cannot damage a Dominant’s emotional and mental wellbeing. There are Dominants that can’t handle a submissive that is acerbic and rebellious. Partners should strive to keep each other healthy so the dynamic can grow and pleasure can be reached without medical interruptions. © 12/29/23 Ronald Dirienzo
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Acerbic for sure can be a bit to nasty for many people to handle. And some can't even deal with a bit of rebellious teasing, but if that is the subs nature then it is maybe also a failure for a dom to want to have her, if he can't deal with that in a similar playful attitude.
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In my world the DOM sets the tone and maybe I test his resolve IF I get cocky and find out what happens. IF the DOM is right for me HE won't let me get away with it not one little smidgeon😡...... Ha🥴
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"Personally, I can’t imagine being responsible for my submissive needing a cast for broken bones, surgery, or worse." Very true ron.....another good read.....some seem to never think about these things. Keep it up, your doing GREAT!  
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12/29/2023 8:37 pm |
I'm very careful with my toys. I want them to last and always be in good condition.
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