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In the BDSM Lifestyle there are many obligations for all participants. IMO, first of all, is the obligation of all members of the Lifestyle to assist others in the Community. I believe we have an obligation to teach novices and protect them from the risks they don’t have enough knowledge of. We have an obligation to the continuing education of those in the Lifestyle. And we have an obligation to help those in trouble, whether it be from abuse, neglect, bad decisions or the heartache of breakups. Before entering a dynamic, we have an obligation to ourselves to vet properly. Learn as much as possible about a potential partner before risking our safety with a play scene, or committing to a dynamic. Once in a dynamic, each partner has an obligation to the other. Both have the obligation to communicate openly and clearly. The obligation to be honest with their partner. The obligation to work together to grow the dynamic and see to each other’s needs and desires as a priority. For the Dominant, the most basic obligation is to see to the safety, health and wellbeing of the submissive at all times. But it doesn’t stop there. There is the obligation to help the submissive improve, to see to the submissives desires and needs, assist them with issues in life and in some cases support them financially, as well as emotionally. Dominants have an obligation to be respectable, honorable and a partner for the submissive to count on for support at all times. For the submissive, they also have the obligation of safety, health and wellbeing of their Dominant. They have an obligation to follow the agreed to protocols and rules, obey the Dominant to the best of their abilities. Submissives also have an obligation to be counted on by the Dominant during rough times in life These obligations are also present in scene play, with the addition of the obligation of the Dominant to adhere to limits, boundaries and safewords. And the obligation of the submissive to be honest with what they can handle during scenes. Using their safeword when needed and not risking injury by ignoring safety. You may have noticed I didn’t include an obligation by either partner for trust and respect. Trust and respect are not obligations based on the partner’s role because they are both earned. While they are both crucial, and half of the four pillars of BDSM, they must be earned and should never be expected just because of a title you have given yourself or use/used with others. © 2/5/24 Ronald Dirienzo
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2/5/2024 2:18 pm |
Those that appear as simps begging for pussy. I feel no obligation to help. I find it offensive to see a man beg a woman for pussy. Just as bad is seeing a man telling a woman he's ready to fuck her from just looking at her picture. It's sickening to see someone tell a woman all the things he wants to do to her without even knowing her first name. There are plenty of women here too that are just looking to be fucked. They are just trash that should get an account on adult friend finder. The people that Im concerned about are the inexperienced women that are seeing an dom and end up talking to one of those bastards thinking they are real. When I'm talking to a woman. I always tell them about those men and what to watch out for. If a man's profile picture is his deformed dick then that's what he's about. Im just scratching the surface. I don't want to take up your space here...so that's all I have to say.
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I see your parrot is all butt hurt that you blocked his annoying ass. LoL
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Those that appear as simps begging for pussy. I feel no obligation to help. I find it offensive to see a man beg a woman for pussy. Just as bad is seeing a man telling a woman he's ready to fuck her from just looking at her picture. It's sickening to see someone tell a woman all the things he wants to do to her without even knowing her first name. There are plenty of women here too that are just looking to be fucked. They are just trash that should get an account on adult friend finder. The people that Im concerned about are the inexperienced women that are seeing an dom and end up talking to one of those bastards thinking they are real. When I'm talking to a woman. I always tell them about those men and what to watch out for. If a man's profile picture is his deformed dick then that's what he's about. Im just scratching the surface. I don't want to take up your space here...so that's all I have to say.
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Some people act too noble and sensitive. This is a sex hook up site not eHarmony. We are mostly not looking for deep profound relationships here. I like boyfriends- I'm not looking to get married to anyone-for example... 😎
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Unfortunately, movies like Fifty Shades of Garbage have created an endless amount of wannabe-be never-be doms. - Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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