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rondiri 65M
7307 posts
3/30/2024 11:05 am

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3/31/2024 8:15 am

Reason-Reasonable


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rondiri 65M
11180 posts
3/30/2024 11:05 am

We all should use reason when we consider what activities we will partake in when we enter a dynamic.
We should always consider if the requests and demands we make on our partners and the requests and demands that are made by our partners are reasonable in nature and not beyond the agreements we’ve made or the capabilities we have and our partners have.
This comes under the sane part of Safe, Sane and Consensual. It is part of being aware of risks and making a judgement about whether it is safe to do.
Every person has a different conception of what is safe and sane. What is reasonable and what is not.
None of us should force their conception on another in any way. And none of us should allow another to force, manipulate or coerce their conception and reason on us.
Abuse is what we feel is unreasonable activity and the basic concept of our Lifestyle is that we do NOT abuse each other.
We all should think about what we ask others to do and think about if we should accept what others ask of us. Declining to participate in an activity is NOT a crime. It is a safety valve and the right we all have.
© 3/30/24 Ronald Dirienzo


brandygirasol 55T
9433 posts
3/30/2024 1:36 pm

When both parties come to an agreement the SUB/SLAVE should abide by whatever was agreed to and no squeaking - at least not too much!!! .... Ha🫦


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