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Mistygirl72 51F
14 posts
1/19/2022 8:03 am
Selfish lover


Why does he finish in literally 10 pumps .. why does he think foreplay is a rub on my thigh or ass .. why is he got his cock out of his pants before my panties are off.,
He has finished before I’ve become warm … he says sorry everytime and yet he continues to do this everytime.,
What is he thinking? Does he not care that I think he’s a DUD FUCK .. he has to remember he was my buddy we met when I was fucking him in from of my husband..
why would he feel that I’m going to be satisfied with 3 mins from foreplay to wiping myself clean from his load .
Does he just not care he says he loves me .. but I’m questioning it deeply …Any ADVICE BE GREAT PLEASE..
Misty 💋

Yern2lic 67M
1345 posts
1/19/2022 8:18 am

Foreplay is the essence of love making


rope_n_cuffs 78M  
949 posts
1/19/2022 8:37 am

Sounds like a real macho Aussie guy to me! Wham Bam - you know the rest. Unless he has other redeeming properties I'd trade him in......


dutchdave766 72M

1/19/2022 8:40 am

Since he was your buddy fucking in front of your husband, and now just 3 minute man, perhaps he was just into fucking in front of other, power deal, or else he just isn't to you any longer and it is time to move on to another,


alwaysassertive 64M

1/19/2022 8:53 am

Unfortunately that's the world we live in sometimes. Do you really think you're going to change him? Doesn't sound like he's been too receptive to changing so far. Of course he's going to say whatever he needs to say to keep you there. You're probably thinking, best to keep the devil you know than to go with a devil you don't know.

I think you know what the answer is. If you keep doing the same thing, you keep getting the same thing. You need a change and I don't think he's going to be part of that change.

Everything that's broken can't be fixed.

Does this sound familiar, "of course I love you baby, now get in the kitchen and cook me something to eat"

At least he's not pulling his cock out with a rubber already on it.

Think about what you're getting and ask yourself if this is what you want from now on. Is this how you want your life to be?

As long as someone is getting him off. He's getting everything he needs out of a relationship.

A good master is always thinking of his sub. I'm sure you don't want to hear that I have to say, but just think about it. You don't have to do anything. Just think. You are already asking yourself, "Is this all there is to my life"?
I hope you'll write more to I will know how life turns out for you.
Take care Misty....Rick


IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1548 posts
1/19/2022 8:55 am

I worked on holding off till the woman has cum since I first started fucking as a teenager. Don't let him fuck you selfishly. Tell him he has to leave his clothes on and his cock in his pants till you are satisfied.


eagerlywanting 70M

1/19/2022 10:24 am

He's only into himself, have him eat your pussy until you orgasm and have him swallow... If he doesn't kick him to the curb. Who stops at just one orgasm anyway?


ohioeagle 74M
2079 posts
1/19/2022 11:13 am

If we lived closer I'd make you cum a couple of times with my pierced tongue dildos and my fingers before fucking you doggy style with my pierced bwc while spanking that firm ass until we cum then have you lick our cum juices off my cock


DancingDom 74M
22591 posts
1/19/2022 11:39 am

I guess I would may be need to have a talk with the fellow. Tell him your needs. Tell him he needs to take his time and give you your pleasure or perhaps you would move on.

Welcome to the blogs. Best to you.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


sadiedollie 68F
118 posts
1/19/2022 12:54 pm

Move on. Don’t look back.


Tbill1 58M
1795 posts
1/19/2022 1:05 pm

Many above have said it. You need to tell him, talk with him before you have sex again. If he will not talk first then move on. He needs to know your needs are not being met.. Maybe he is concerned about ED, thinks he needs to Make hay while hard... Tell him you need to be the one who decides when he cums. Tell him you need to cum 2 times for his every one time.

andy


Domteddybear1956 67M

1/19/2022 5:20 pm

Have you talked to him about this issue?Communication is #1 in solving issues.


Asdfg599 43M
10 posts
1/19/2022 11:39 pm

Why haven't you moved on


heatedcorrosion 56M
80 posts
1/23/2022 7:28 pm

You need to change is view of sex. He needs to feel comfortable taking and discussing what feels good and what each wants. Take him to tantric class and try to teach how to enjoy his and your body.
Hope it works otherwise there may be tears lies and deceptions and that is not fun.


tastetester61 62M
1782 posts
2/21/2022 1:38 am

I'm a little late to the cause here, but here's my view.

How old is this guy? If he's old enough to know better, he probably just doesn't care. Have an important talk to him about what matters to you, and that he's not just there for himself. This is something that needs to happen sooner rather than later, life is too short to settle for 2nd best (or 10th). His orgasms bring him to the party, and he has to realise that it's yours that bring you. Don't mess with him for too long, he either gets it or he doesn't.

I'd be more than happy to give you a foreplay session that lasts for hours without anything else, just to get you off over and over, in front of hubby. You're not really what I'm looking for, but I'd be happy to make you feel like you're worth it. I live 3 hours north of you.

Whatever happens, I wish you all the best, and please, join us regularly in blog land.



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