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WhiteDom4BlacFem 50M
9 posts
3/2/2022 4:17 pm
Words have meaning: Shibari is not Sadistic Rope


I suppose all things are relative; if you allow them be.

I a new slave that wrote down that she is curious about being a bottom to a rigger. She used terms found online or in some book, but had never been a model nor had she seen a rigger work. So, was left me be a teacher for a few moments and I don't like teaching anything anyone anymore.

Shibari is Japanese for "binding" and is considered be an art form. is decorative, knotless, and mainly used in suspension. does incorporate "sexual acts", but in the eastern mind; not the western mind.

The acronym BDSM has assimilated many things over the years the point that the term "Bondage" is now just an empty umbrella term. could imply straps a bed, shackles a kennel cage, puff cuffs a chain, etc. etc.

Shibari is an art form and must be respected as the rigger and the model a TPE that they can truly comprehend.

As someone was trained in Sadism; I can vouch for the concept of sadistic rope and I can say without hesitation that it doesn't require geometry, decoration, suspension, or even a<b> philosophy </font></b>per se. It is a delivery system of Pain.

Sadistic Rope is just that; sadistic. Words meaning. Shibari means "bind" in Japanese and our beloved Marquis gave us pain as pleasure. Sadistic rope is restraint of movement through pain.

I don't agree nor do I like people calling bondage and then expect people know exactly what is happening or going happen.

For myself, I use: piano and guitar strings, deep sea fishing line as aid in lacerations of the skin. Some of the knots I use coupled with hemp rope cause the bottom to "choke" out or "numb" body parts the more they move. In this manner, Sadistic rope separates itself completely from other forms of Bondage as the pain as pleasure principle is front and center and never in question. The effort must be singular in order for the act to meaning. Pain.

will be blood.

will be pain.

Because words meaning.

I also use leather in the manner as native tribes did in that I wet , tie tightly around the model, and then wait for it dry. The innate features of leather will let the bottom know that the tie is contracting as the moisture leaves the leather which will cause them more pain. A new pain. A fresh pain not to be confused with the pain they felt when the session began.

I no right grade papers or define terms anyone, but is troublesome that the new players speak of the lifestyle like so many double clicks or something meant go viral.

Shibari and Sadistic rope are gifts and art forms unto themselves and they are separates acts of TPE.

That is how I feel. That is what I know.


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